Being little alone

March 14, 2019

So..I have a hard time getting into little space alone? Without another little or a big to talk to even just like over the phone or something. I just I don't know...get the same enjoyment out of it when I'm alone? Is this okay? What are some ways I can get little without having other around? Does anyone else feel this way?

March 15, 2019

Hiya!

Before I met my Daddy I had a very hard time getting into little space when I was alone, and sometimes still do when Daddy is away and I'm home alone. A lot of littles go through the same experience, so you are definitely no alone when it comes to that.

My best advice is to do things that make you happy. It doesn't necessarily have to be "little related" but things that make you happy in general like watching your favorite T.V show or snuggling up in a blanket. This will make you feel more comfortable and might make it easier for you to get into little space.

After you've gotten comfortable, try incorporating "little" things into the activities you are doing to ease yourself into little space. Sometimes, when we overthink little space it makes it less likely to happen (if that makes sense). So have little things on hand so you aren't breaking yourself out of headspace to find them. Things like stuffies, sippy cups or coloring books can be good things to have on hand!

Little space is different for everyone so you are just going to have to find what works for you.

Hope this helps!

Junebug xxx