Recently abandoned little

[Lyla Kotamora]

My name is Lyla. I am 20. I am a Brat/Lg... Has been for about 2 years. Recently been left for another little. Its been really hard. My last DD played games with my head, and the end result is me not feeling comfortable with being little me any more. I find myself slipping into little space and feeling utterly alone and scared, and I end up crying myself asleep. This is me reaching out. I don't know what I need or want. Just want to feel confident as a little again

[Princess Ganja]

Hey I’m a little that has Been. left before for another little you wanna talk ?

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

[DaddyDom3238]

Hi Lyla,

I am very sorry that happened to you and unfortunately that is rather common, it will just take you some time to be able to be little again and just take it slowly, do not rush it as I am sure you know very well that being little is a very vulnerable place to be and you need to feel safe. This has probably thrown you for quite a loop and just like it takes time to trust a DD, it will take time for you to feel safe being little again. Just know that not all DD's are like that and you will find someone to cherish and adore you. I hope that you feel better soon!!

[hurtnolivingthing]

My name is Lyla. I am 20. I am a Brat/Lg... Has been for about 2 years. Recently been left for another little. Its been really hard. My last DD played games with my head, and the end result is me not feeling comfortable with being little me any more. I find myself slipping into little space and feeling utterly alone and scared, and I end up crying myself asleep. This is me reaching out. I don't know what I need or want. Just want to feel confident as a little again

Hello Lyla.

 

I'm really sorry for what has happened to you, and how you're feeling now.

You are understandably very hurt and confused.

You need to concentrate now on recovering from all that has happened.

It's a healing.. and healing takes time.

 

I do urge you to make some little friends here who you can really talk with.

(And of course, you can use this Forum to vent anytime you need).

Receiving support and understanding will help you a lot. Especially when you feel scared and lost.

 

Do not rush into finding a new daddy at this point.

You say your  last daddy 'played games with your head'...

I'd call that abuse. He was abusing you: mentally & emotionally.

It was a cruel thing to do to you. Honestly you are better without him.

 

You will heal in time; and I truly wish that your confidence will be restored soon.

 

Take good care of yourself. I'm wishing you all the best for the future.

[Vmaxxx]

It happens and it's hard to get out of this situation.We feel everything is going alright ,and suddenly we find our partner don't love us anymore or just leaves without any word. The problem is communication, we just keep our problems to ourselves and at one point we just can't deal with it ,so we just leave. But this isn't called as relationship. Relationship comprises of honesty,trust,love and communication.

Give some time to yourself , and make sure the mistakes that happened in this relationship won't repeat next time . And I am damn sure you will find the besttttt daddy again sooner. So wipe up your tears , cuddle your stuffie and just smile . See stuffie never leaves you and always protects you ,hehe ,keep smiling. Have a great day

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

" Relationship comprises of honesty,trust,love and communication." -> Vmaxxx said everything. Take some time to heal now, and take it slow. If you want to be little go ahead but do it for yourself, for your own happiness. One day a decent guy that truly loves you, respects you and cares for you will be in your life. Just know that guys that are worth it take a while to show up ^^ but is worth the wait! There are many awesome daddies out there.

[Daddy4SubLg]

Lyla. My heat goes out to you. The hurt will pass. And you'll

Find an excellent Daddy. Be sure to take good care of yourself.

Eat and seek out your friends, family and other littles as much as you can.

You are unique and wonderful and will find someone to care for you properly. Not all daddies are or should be like you just experienced.

Take care, hugs and keep busy. Best regards.

[Daddy4SubLg]

Well. That should have read. My 'heart' goes out to you.

You've got this.

[LittlePapaPhoenix]

Lyla...I know you're hurting, and lost and confused. I understand you're going through all of this, and you feel alone, like no one is there for you. I know these words may sound hollow, and I might just be coming off as being just another person on a forum claiming to know what you're feeling when they don't really, they just want to say they do. I get that feeling. I understand how it feels to struggle to trust anyone, including yourself. I know this because I have been there. I have had Littles walk away from me in favor of another Daddy. I have lost Littles to tragic accidents. I've also lost Littles who just don't want to be Little anymore. I've been through heartache, loss, and tragedy. I can say this in all honesty: While Time heals many things, including broken love and broken trust, it hurts tremendously throughout the process. If you ever need someone to talk to, to confide in, to vent to or to explode on, please, I urge you to reach out to someone. I am ALWAYS available, and I know there are others, both Littles, AND Caregivers, who read this and feel the same way. You're not alone, Dear Heart. You have a whole community here waiting for you to reach out. We will support you, lift you up and help you spread your wings and soar. Someday soon you will once again fly the magestic, peaceful, and happy flight of the truly happy and healthy Little. Believe, young one. And you will see.

With loving thoughts,
~* PapaPhoenix *~

[JellyBean_Cherry]

Hi Lyla!

I was recently abandoned too! it really hurts a whole bunch.  Since I am going through it too I don't have much advice. But if you'd ever like another little friend to talk too I definitely would not mind! I sent you a friend request

 

JellyBean

[Guest Unboundedlittle]

I'm little and was left too! Snap chat my anytime you feel lonely please! Unboundedlittle. You are strong you can do this!