Daddy advice and guidance

[Newdaddy1999]

Hi I have just recently became a daddy within the past 3 months. I have this amazing little and everything was going well but her aunt has cancer and she has became distant and hates the world. I love my little shes my world but she obviously needs space to worry about life and I dont know how to help my little. She got me started and I honestly felt like being a daddy dom was just a piece of my life I never knew I needed or wanted. I feel I will lose my little and being my first little I have a strong attachment to her. I guess I want to ask advice on helping her and how to move on if it truly is over. And yes I'm 19 I'm going to have more relationships but this feels great being my first little. Thank you for your time. Any advice is helpful.

[Vito]

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[Sweetieheart]

Hi! So um... I'm not a Caregiver. I know that this is what this section is for so uhh... Sorry. But I think that as a little, I can maybe give you some insight and advice? What your little is going through right now is super rough. Just remember that it's not you she's upset with. She's probably pushing everyone away. I think the best thing you can do is check in on her every once in a while. As how she's doing, remind her that you care about her, tell her that you're there if she wants to talk. She might need space to deal with the stress, but it's always nice to know that you have someone to lean on if you need it

[VentralStriatum]

Hi! So um... I'm not a Caregiver. I know that this is what this section is for so uhh... Sorry. But I think that as a little, I can maybe give you some insight and advice? What your little is going through right now is super rough. Just remember that it's not you she's upset with. She's probably pushing everyone away. I think the best thing you can do is check in on her every once in a while. As how she's doing, remind her that you care about her, tell her that you're there if she wants to talk. She might need space to deal with the stress, but it's always nice to know that you have someone to lean on if you need it

 

I think when a caregiver has any kind of issue with their little, hearing about it from the perspective of another little who's been in the same position is valuable.

 

And speaking as someone in the caregiver role, I completely agree with Sweetieheart. At some point, we all have this moment where someone we've grown close to and loved for years will start to fall seriously ill or get seriously hurt otherwise. The first time dealing with this is always incredibly stressful. People react differently under stress, some avoid, some get overly sad, some get angry with everyone and everything in the world because it's just not fair. Give her space to deal with it in the way she wants to. Don't get in the mindset of it being a problem you have to solve for her, because it's a purely emotional release that takes time.