My Sweetheart

[Sadie Tremaine]

Just as some background, I own an Ageplay forum and most of the participants (Bigs) and I have been friends for many years and we're around the same age. There have been real life rules and punishments given with some but not as a rule. We're not local to one another so everything is through the computer. We're all basically the same age as well. With the exception of this one person who is roughly ten years younger. She is fairly new to the community but we've gotten very close. 

 

Recently she and her family moved from one country to another. Not everything got taken care of and so she went back to her old home to do things so that her parents didn't have to. She shared with me that this was the first time she would EVER be alone (and yes she is over 18, I have seen her ID and her on voice and camera holding her ID). We had been talking about a real life aspect to our relationship but with a house full there was always a lack of privacy. So once we knew she would have time completely alone we started to plan for it. There were rules and consequences, and on her way to the airport she even made sure to let me know that I was in charge. We had a month where I could be Mom 24/7, as much as was realistically possible with the distance (obviously I couldn't cook for her, etc). 

 

AND. SHE. ROCKED. IT. 

 

I cannot tell you how proud I am of this girl. I wasn't expecting her to be able to let go to the level that she did. She has this...complete and total trust in me that I'm not quite used to. It was a little...scary for me because I don't want to overstep, even though we are always sure to keep an open communication. But it was an absolutely wonderful experience and we're closer than ever, now. She's back home and things have shifted back.

 

I guess I should say that we haven't labeled our Adult to Adult relationship so that's why I'm feeling unsure about whether I'm in the right place but from what I understand MDLG seems to be what we're doing. I just had to brag on my girl!

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i'm glad you are in this kind of nurturing relationship where she was able to trust enough to let go to that degree!

that's a really special thing!

congrats -- you've got a lot to brag about!

[Guest ~*BabyDoll*~]

Omg I am soooo happy for you!!!

 

It sounds like you two have something really great going for the both of you and it just warms my heart right up!

 

I love this so much and I am just beyond happy that you got to brag about something so wonderful! <3

[Sadie Tremaine]

Thank you both! It helps that she likes to say she 'can't adult' lol so when she didn't have a choice (because she wasn't at home with her parents she was in another country) she still needed that support. And now that she's back home it's trying to find the appropriate balance again and it's also hard because no voicing or cam, etc because of lack of privacy. And hard because she's with her bio parents so it can be hard to know where the lines are, in a sense.