New to DDLG, and confused?

[Squiggles]

So I never really knew what DDLG was until recently, when a friend of mine brought me to this site. I have a few friends who are littles, and I've tried talking to them about it a bit but I am still discovering things. Is it normal to not have sexual interest, but still connect to being a little? A dear friend of mine treats me like his little, and I call him Daddy often, but it is a purely platonic and caregiving relationship. I also just considered it a friendship. I also have a boyfriend, whom I live with, that I am a dom towards. This relationship is both romantic and sexual. I guess what I'm asking is for some more information and people to talk to :c I feel lost. I'm usually really afraid to talk about this stuff publicly, or even with friends. So sorry if I'm not making any sense. ;n;

[polkadotjammies]

It's perfectly normal to not have any sexual desire when in little space, or at any time at all really. As long as you are open and honest with everyone involved, then there should be no problem. 

 

For me being little is about the freedom to just be me. I dont have to worry about bills, cooking, most of the cleaning, and any of the other 'adult' worries that often plague my mind. When I'm little I get to color, finger paint, play with my plushies, and watch tons of cartoons without fear of judgement (even though my husband and I have been together for 3 years). I'm not sexual at all when I'm little, and that's fine (it's also fine to be little and sexual). I think that it just depends on the people involved. This is a super friendly community, and I'm sure that you'll be able to discover what being little means for you.

 

Sorry for the rambling, I hope I answered at least one of your questions.

[LB Chris]

Some people find their little side is not sexual and being a little of itself doesn't have to involve sex and other people find it just slots in fine.

I think sometimes people need to remember legally speaking we're adults and everything happens consensually in that context.

[Guest Penny]

Whatever you do that makes you happy, that's normal

 

Littles are as different as they are awesome. It's normal and play to feel confused but it sounds to me like you have a pretty cool set up going as long as everyone is happy and accepting of it.

 

Personally I'm not very sexual as a little, it'd more about relaxing and feeling innocent and happy, it can happen, but it's rare.