New to poly lifestyle

[Littlest-puppy]

Give me information please.

[Guest Satan]

Give me information please.

this is am amazing post written by one of the sites staff members. Check it out. Lots of good info

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12926-polyamory-basics-by-belle/

[Little kaiya]

The best advice I can give is talk to your partner / partners. There is not one simple answer or way to do things. Polyamorous relationships can be very different things for different people.

 

My wife, Daddy and I are in a closed, committed, polyamorous relationship. In our experience it takes a lot of communication, honesty and trust. My wife and I were married for 12 years before we found the man who became my Daddy and who completed us and who we completed. The three of us have been together now for over a year.

 

It took adjustments in terms if scheduling, sleeping arrangements, holidays, etc., but it has been worth all the effort and every single moment of happiness reminds us this is right for us.

 

Honestly, find your path with your partner. Dont let anyone tell you poly is or usnt something. All it really means is living more than one person at the same time but what that relationship looks like and evolves into is only ever up to those people involved, nobody else.

 

Little kaiya

[gorebaby]

Kaiya gave absolutely beautiful advice. A big thing for me is compromise, with additional partners comes with multiple choices with tons of conflicting answers everyday. Always, always comprise. Honesty is key. Then also accept trial and error! I'm in a monogamous relationship right now but, I've been in plenty of poly relationships in the past!