I need to be little!!

[Princess Kmay Buttercup]

My Daddy and I are a real "Mommy" and "Daddy" . ALL of our kids are toddlers and they need us a lot. We Also both work full time. My problem is that when the end of the day comes I find myself to wore out for anything. Including Littlespace. A few days like this in a row and I can't really emotionally function. I need balance so I can have my littlespace. Any tips for me?

[peachu]

aww oh no that sounds really difficult!! do you have any family or friends who could maybe take the babies for an overnight stay so you and your daddy can have some time to yourselves? 

[Misha]

Aside from a babysitter, maybe you could try a little space that is more relaxing.

 

1. Get in a comfy onesie, get a paci or sippy cup, and snuggle up with your stuffies while watching a cute cartoon. 

2. Wear some cute pajamas and ask your Daddy to read you some stories.

3. Instead of a shower, have a bubble bath with some toys. And some fun music if that won't draw the attention of your kids.

4. Get in bed with a pillow against the wall, and do an activity book.

 

Maybe also explain this to your Daddy if you haven't already, because he might have some ideas/ways he would like to help also. :3

[Princess stitch]

im in the same situation right now. ive got a 4 month old daughter and im a full time mum so im really tired lately. so glad its not just me lol. i dont have great answers because im stuck myself right now, i love my daughter but going from few responsiblities and having lots of little space time to suddenly having no time and being so tired has definatly hit hard.

what helps for me iss if we put on a disney movie and my daddy takes care of the baby for a short time and i can color. (last time we tried this i got about 15mins before i had to take over haha its worth a try though but i can image its more challenging with multiple children).

it helps if i sleep with my paci and fav stuffie.

[jaredstone363]

I don't know what your daily routine is like but try to set aside a dedicated time for "little you". Even if it's 15/30min at night, every other day. Or have him just read you a quick bedtime story before you both go to bed. Improvise, adapt and overcome!

[Momma'sBoy]

Hi, fellow daddy to 3 actual kids here as well as a little boy.

 

This may not work for everyone, depending on your littlespace mindset, but I find it lots of fun to enter little space while playing with my kids.

 

Added bonus: my kids love how silly daddy acts when he acts little.

 

Obviously that won't work if you have NSFW Little needs. But for me personally, a few hours of SFW little time a week does wonders to keep me happy.

[Brokenbouncy]

Maybe you can set time everyday for playtime where your daddy takes care of you and the kids? Like playtime with just 1 parent. Playing with toddlers is my favorite they are soo fun! I'm childfree so i don't have kids but when i play with my nephews and cousins i have a blast.