Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted August 16, 2015 Report Posted August 16, 2015 IF YOU ARE A LITTLE SEEKING A BIG SISTER/CAREGIVER scroll down in this post to see the current list of Volunteers. try and meet them in chat or message them in a forum post. Reach out if you can. If you are an experienced member of the DD/lg community and you would like to offer your time to help mentor and be a support to those new to the DD/lg community then post with you name here please. This is mostly for Littles, Giving support and needing it. For now, let us leave it to them. If the need arises for "Uncles" then we can look into that, but likely 99% of Littles will want another Little as mentor. To clarify the nature of this relationship, this is not a power exchange. This is more about having a buddy system. Someone that the new Little can trust for advice, support, and general friendship as they learn what they are and how they feel about all the choices they have before them. Some things to consider: - Do you have the time? New Littles are sometimes anxious and need many questions answered. If you new friend hit you with 7 questions in one day, could you respond in a timely fashion or would it be a week before you would be able to get around to them. - Do you understand your strengths and weaknesses? Littles come in all shapes and sizes, Are there certain things you can handle better then others? Somethings you cant handle at all? - Do you have a bit of a Mama Bear inside you when it comes to the safety of other Littles? Lets be honest here. There are some bad creepers out there. Are you ready to call a creep a creep and defend the safety of another Little? I don't think I have the right or ability to tell a volunteer they can't help, so you should police yourself and be honest with whether you can help and have the heart to. The thing that gave me the idea was my concern over new Littles with no experience that admit they are just learning what all this is about, and are out looking for a Daddy on day one. Everyone is different and has different experience, but this is dangerous no matter who you are. You could be 45 yrs old and still get hurt really bad. If anyone has any questions, send me a PM, or one of the Littles you see volunteer here, either in chat or through the mail. But please, do not post here unless you are volunteering. Once you have picked up a Little padawan, edit your volunteer post please to show that Little's name. Look through the Introductions and Personals for new Littles that might want or need help. I am sure I am forgetting something, but I am just trying to get this started for everyone. Good luck and happy times! If you volunteer,please send me a friend request so I can send group PMs about the Volunteer squad. Also we need a cute name CURRENT LISTOF BIG SIBLING VOLUTEERS: (in no certain order) StrayKitty Curious-Babydoll Princess-P Loola NotQuiteRapunzel Winnie Penny PrincessTori lilEmi Babylou Melly Littlest-bunny snailkit Neko CURRENT LIST OF NEW LITTLES: (only including those who specifically say they are new Littles, so if you want to be added, tell me) ShyIsabella spicaterrible little_bow 1287 SugarPie fatyknowsnothing Kat Jezzie princessmissa princxss candles Clairbear jenna101 Daddy Colin's Bunny CinderellaBeforeTheBall Curious-about-Littles tinyhallie Littlenessa 7
babylou Posted August 17, 2015 Report Posted August 17, 2015 Me too! More than happy to advise, be a shoulder to lean on or an ear to bend for all new littles. I can spend more time in the chat now and although I'm a bit of a technophobe (I don't do whatsapp or kik) I do have skype and am always happy to chat via pm here or where ever folk feel happy
little_emi Posted August 17, 2015 Report Posted August 17, 2015 Heyyyy I totally volunteer. I'll try to answer any questions you have
Guest Penny Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 I've been a big sister before and I loved it I would love to help out!
BH_Bambi Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 I VOLUNTEER AS SIBLING! Hehe, here or kik, just let me know Littles newly discovering the giant world of DDlg shouldn't feel alone <3 1
Winni Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 I'm so glad this was created! I volunteer to take on a little sib~ Thems creeps better watch out!!
littlebelle Posted August 21, 2015 Report Posted August 21, 2015 Hello there. I'm little belle. I really ant to find a daddy who I can msg often. Can you help? 1
Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted August 21, 2015 Report Posted August 21, 2015 Littlebelle. Hey there and welcome. We are not a Matchmaking service. What the volunteers above do, is help those new to the lifestyle learn more about it and about themselves. Help the new Little through the beginning stages by being a friend and offering advice. I do not see you made an Introduction post yet. Why not go and make one and introduce yourself to everyone and I am sure someone will contact you if you want help learning about being Little. Good luck!
Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted August 21, 2015 Report Posted August 21, 2015 Volunteers. Anyone have a better idea for our group then Big SIblings? We really need a cute name. This is what happens when a Daddy is left up to this kind of thing. Practical and to the poiint. Littles tend to be much more cute and creative. So toss some ideas to me in a PM please, I dont want to litter this thread with much beyond those saying they are Volunteering. Thanks in advance!
littledaisy Posted August 23, 2015 Report Posted August 23, 2015 hai! im a new little and I would really appreciate all the help that I can get, ive done my research but I know there's still so much I have to learn!
Bienchen Posted August 23, 2015 Report Posted August 23, 2015 Could you add me to the new little list please. Thank you!
Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted August 24, 2015 Report Posted August 24, 2015 Added both littledaisy and Bienchen We are up to 32 Littles over the past 2.5 weeks that say they are new to being Littles. Congrats! Please reach out to us as we reach out to you in helping you find all the answers you seek.
Micinka Posted August 28, 2015 Report Posted August 28, 2015 Hi! I am a new little as well and would love to be added to the group. Having a Big Sister would be absolutely amazing and if there's anyone out there willing to volunteer I would be over the moon!
missmouse Posted August 28, 2015 Report Posted August 28, 2015 My Daddy and I have a pretty solid history together as a couple, but we are just starting to explore Ddlg. I don't know if that disqualifies me or not, but if not I would really like to be added to the new littles list.
PrincessLollipop Posted August 30, 2015 Report Posted August 30, 2015 Hi! I am a new little (just 5 months ago) So if you feel you have any advice or something to share with me, please add me and feel free to talk. Thanks!
Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted August 31, 2015 Report Posted August 31, 2015 PrincessLollipop, missmouse, and Micinka have all been add!
SpinSpinSugar Posted September 4, 2015 Report Posted September 4, 2015 Hello. I'm a new little and while I'm not new to kink, this is totally new territory to me, so any advice would be great. Thank you!
Rosebud Posted September 4, 2015 Report Posted September 4, 2015 I'm not new to kink but new to being a little. I'm not sure of little age or if I even have one? We've been D/s for over a year but exploring little side for a month or so.
Guest Leilah Posted September 5, 2015 Report Posted September 5, 2015 I'm a little ...i'd like a big sister
Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted September 6, 2015 Report Posted September 6, 2015 SpinSpinSugar, Rosebud and Cuddly Sub all added to the list. Thanks for helping make this easy! Hope you all make some great friends
Guest LaidBackDaddy Posted September 9, 2015 Report Posted September 9, 2015 So many new Littles this past week: Daddyslittlefrenchprincess, Harley_Quinn, Raichump, Dragonkitten, littleprincesss, Darkling, sneaky_ninja_bunny have all been added Please, if anyone has been missed, just let me know. I have not been checking Personals, only Introductions.
Guest Strawberry Posted September 10, 2015 Report Posted September 10, 2015 hmmm I'm new but not like I just learned about the lifestyle but more like I still feel like there is so much left to learn?? lol I would like a mentor/big I guess is what I am trying to say >^.^<
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