Need advice! Titles and their significance

[Lyruu]

Hi! I'm a little and I need some advice from other daddies.

 

I've been with my Daddy for about 7 months. We are interested in playing with another girl. He used to play with a girl before me, so since he trusts her and I think she's cute, so we agreed to try. During our initial group chat, she called him Daddy and it made me very uncomfortable. I told him, and at first he explained to me that its just a moniker and has no bearing over how he feels about either one of us or who he loves etc. But it was uncomfy for me so he talked to her separately about not calling him that with me. She decided to back out of the situation as she felt censored.

 

Now my Daddy seems different. Usually he's very loving and makes me feel secure. But he seems stressed and he said he feels bad for hurting both of us, and idk. He's aloof and distant. This happened yesterday, and he was supposed to see me this morning but wasn't feeling well so he just went to work instead of coming over. We talked about it on the phone a little, and he sounded very indifferent towards me. Almost disinterested even. He said hes tired and feels bad, and I am just worried that I messed things up.

 

So my question is: am I overreacting? Am I focusing too much on symanteics and losing sight of the otherwise loving and solid relationship I have with him? Should I just let it go and have fun?

 

Thank you in advance!

[DaddyDom3238]

Hi,

I don't think you should not express your feelings towards him and how her calling him Daddy made you feel. If you are uncomfortable with it then you should not accept it and I feel that his responsibility should be towards you and your comfort at all times. I have been in similar situations where my little and I brought in another girl for play and she did not call me Daddy as I new it would upset my little.

This all depends on your relationship and every relationship has limkts and obviously this is one of yours. Daddy to me is an earned title and is very special so I tend to agree with you on that unless you are in a poly relationship I feel you should be the only one calling him Daddy.

However,give it a few days and continue to talk to him about it.

Good luck to you!!

[junebug0325]

I definitely do not think you are overreacting, in my opinion. With this being said, you should tell your Daddy that it made you feel uncomfortable. It is your Daddy’s first and foremost task to keep you happy, especially if to him she is just someone he likes to play with.

 

When you change or alter a relationship, that also means you change or alter the rules and limits for that relationship. Making a fine like between what is okay and what is not is very important in poly relationships.

 

I hope this helps!

 

 

Junebug xxx

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Hey, at least now you know that is a limit for you!