To the littles, I would love to know what you think about this theory of three emotions of little space that I made with my little

[Guest DaddyNinja]

Hi,

 

I love to study and make theories about ddlg as a hobby. I do studies with my little in our dynamic. We use journal, observation and thinking to create theories about littls space.

 

Here is a theory I made. I would love to know what you think ?

 

It is based on the study done on my little and her own observation on herself. It is not a scientific study, but for fun and knowledge. It may not apply to every little because it was done on my little only.

 

Thank you.

 

I can teach you how to do your own studies if you are curious. It can be fun with you and your daddy dom.

 

Here is the theory we studied for fun:

 

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Three main emotions of little space

 

1. An individual has countless number of emotions. Out of all those emotions, the three strongest emotions that influence little space are : 1. Love 2. Fear 3. Joy

 

2. When it comes to little space, the three emotions are further divided into two parts : Internal world and External World. Internal world is how the individual feels about their own little space, and their little world. External world is how the individual experiences the three emotions when they are in their little space.

 

3. The emotion of love in little space, influences how the individual feel about their little world and their little within. The emotions of love is connected to the self worth, self esteem and self confidence of the little.

 

4. The emotion of fear in little space, influences the state of dissociation of little space. The more stronger the fear a little experiences in their little space, the more diassociated they will feel from their little space.

 

5. The experience of fear is the number one and main cause of anxiety and depression in little space.

 

6. If the individual has experienced strong fear when they were in their little space, then that individual can find it hard to enter their little space in future. It mainly happenes from a bad or judgemental relationship.

 

7. The emotion of Joy influences the happiness, satistication, safety, protection of the little. The joys infuence the internal and external world greatly compared to the other two emotions. Joys felt during their little space, makes the individual very happy and relaxed more. There is a sense of strong satistication and a feeling of peace and floating when the individual is experiencing joy in their little space.

 

8. The causes of problems in little space starts with the emotion of fear during the early stages of a relationship, where the individual experiences lot of judgement. Any event that creates fear in the little space, will cause the little to become anxious and depressed when it comes to their little space.

 

9. Depression and anxiety in little space are diffirent from normal anxiety and depression.

 

10. The individual can feel frustrated if they cant experience their little space for a long time. The frustration can lead to anger and misunderstandings.

 

11. The problems of self worth in little space, starts with the experience of hate and disgust experienced in little space. If the individual experiences events where they were made to feel bad for being themselves for being a little. Then that cause issues related to self worth in little space.

 

12. The law of association of the three emotions in little space :

 

The three emotions have a tendency to associate with each other. The experiences related to fear get associated with the experiences related to the events of hate. The two emotions get associated with the experiences of lack of joy.

 

When the three experiences of fear, hate and lack of joy get associated together when it comes to little space. The little experiences the state of complete dissociation of little space.

 

It is a state, where the little does not feel the little space anymore. No matter how hard they try, they cant seem to enter their little space anymore. It can be undone nuturing the little and doing ddlg related activities that cultivate the emotions of joy, safety and self love

 

13. To nuture a little, the three emotions need to be cultivated in a way, that it creates a positive environment for the individual to explore their little space

 

● Emotional safety and protection of the relationship, where the little does not experience fear or feeling of being abandoned in their little space. Where the trust is strong

 

● Self love, self acceptence and showing the little that she has the freedom to be herself.

 

● Guiding the little in their little space and cultivating and showing them the joy of being themselves.

 

These are some of the methods that are used to nuture the little.

 

14. The fundamentals conditions of entering and exploring little space are :

 

● Self love

 

● An enviourment free from fear and judgments

 

● self acceptence of their little space

 

● Relaxation of the mind and body.

 

● Awakened imagination and desire to explore their little side. Here, awakened imagination means the individual understands the need to let go of worries and fears and being themselves.

 

● Acitives that gradually guides the little in their little space. The list of activities are different for each little.

 

● An environment ot safety and protection : Emotional, physical and spiritual safety and protection.

 

● Cutivation of Joy using activities the little likes to do.

 

The conditions can be done alone using any method the little likes that meets the above conditions. It can be done together with their daddy dom also.

 

15. An individual can enter little space anytime and anywhere, it does not follows any particular type of pattern. That depeneds on the individuals and the uniqueness of their little space.

Edited February 10, 2019 by DaddyNinja

[Tianna2197]

You seem to have put a lot of work into this with your little, I just want to say well done

[SamL]

Everyone needs a hobby - sounds like yours is one you can share with your little and in enhances your communication with her.  Nothing wrong with that.

[junebug0325]

I first want to start off by saying that I think the work you are doing is great. I will say, however, that at least for me, the “fear” emotion doesn’t quite apply to me WITHIN little space.

 

Let me explain. At least for me, I don’t feel any fear in little space. All I feel is love and joy, because little space happens when I am the most comfortable with myself and with my environment, therefore, I don’t feel any dissosociation with myself during little space. If I do exhibit fear in little space, it is because the environment causes it. Thunder and lightning can be a good example, because it is something I fear in little space and something that is caused by the environment.

 

I hope that this makes sense? I’m not sure if I explained it thouroghly, so let me know if you have any questions.

 

Best of luck!

 

Junebug xxx

[CryptKing]

Uh, wow.

[MommySophia]

Unfortunately if you are talking theories - this can only be applied to your own little. 

I would recommend taking a poll to truly find out what emotions are most prominent in Littlespace. For instance, in my experience as a Mommy, the biggest emotions I see are devotion, love and confusion. Which would be an entirely different theory than what you have presented. And I believe most littles would explain that their main emotions differ. 

However, the cultivating of the safe environment is highly important, but again, if you are talking about internal, external and associations, I would recommend being careful. Because this is all true for *your* little. For instance, I know quite a few littles who when they reach little space have no fear at all. Because they let their Big do the worrying for them. So their approach would be entirely different than a little who is anxious.

 

Now, you could start a theory on common *issues* with little space that revolves around *common* emotions and make your connections there. But I would recommend doing so on a broader spectrum

[SamL]

Unfortunately if you are talking theories - this can only be applied to your own little. 

 

I would recommend taking a poll to truly find out what emotions are most prominent in Littlespace. For instance, in my experience as a Mommy, the biggest emotions I see are devotion, love and confusion. Which would be an entirely different theory than what you have presented. And I believe most littles would explain that their main emotions differ. 

 

However, the cultivating of the safe environment is highly important, but again, if you are talking about internal, external and associations, I would recommend being careful. Because this is all true for *your* little. For instance, I know quite a few littles who when they reach little space have no fear at all. Because they let their Big do the worrying for them. So their approach would be entirely different than a little who is anxious.

 

Now, you could start a theory on common *issues* with little space that revolves around *common* emotions and make your connections there. But I would recommend doing so on a broader spectrum

 

A good solid response that I, for the life of me, couldn't figure out how to communicate.  Theoretically, such a theory could be proven, but only thru induction which would require information on every little...ever.  But - I did get to use both 'theoretically' and 'theory' in the same sentence....which was the whole point.

 

Seriously though, besides the point above, you are going to have to rely on self-reporting only which, in addition to all the normal problems with self-reporting (i.e. variances in self-awareness, comorbidity with both mental and physical issues causing emotional bluntness, etc.), your also going to have serious transference concerns.  All that said, knowing yourself and your partner better through self-examination and communication is a lovely thing and can't think of a better hobby.

[Guest DaddyNinja]

Thank you for letting me know guys; that gives me new topics to explore. I don't use them for any scientific study, the vanilla society is too judgemental.

 

And Yes, I understand that it does not apply to every little. For general study, I understand that It needs more studies and more structured classifications to be done; I do them for fun mainly.

Edited February 11, 2019 by DaddyNinja

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

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