Getting caught

[Guest deleted 390]

So I'm a little that still lives with their parents and it's usually at night when I enter little space. I keep my gear hidden in my laptop bag and today I had a rather long day. I decided to get into little space after a long while of not. I usually just wear my thigh highs and maybe a pacifier or keep a bottle with me. Because I don't have much privacy. I figured it was late and it was a good time to get into this state, so I did. But then I decided to go to the kitchen because I wanted some milk. I rarely use my baby bottle, but tonight I decided to do so. In the process of finding some chocolate for it, my mom saw my bottle with milk. I had the top on, so she didn't see the rubber part you use to drink. She kept asking me questions about why I was drinking milk and where I was taking it. She was so confused and she saw my thigh highs and said how ridiculous I looked. I told her I just felt like wearing them and that I wasn't wearing them for school tomorrow. As for the bottle situation, I just said I was thirsty and felt like drinking milk before I proceeded to hide it in my clothes and go back to my room.

 

I just feel quite horrible because I'm scared she'll interrogate me about this situation tomorrow. I don't know what to tell her. Because she wouldn't understand little space and probably view it as concerning or with misunderstanding if I explained it. I'm scared of being judged and I just don't know how to explain where I bought this and why I'm using the bottle. I feel so ashamed of being a little. What do I do? Have any of you ever been caught with little gear or in little space? If so, what did you do? 

 

Sorry for the ramble. I'm just really stressed. I want to be able to be a little without anyone around. It's so frustrating. 

[Jemas]

first off never feel ashamed of what you are all you can do is just let things go where they lie .. im sure youll be fine so just smile and enjoy urself 

[gorebaby]

I got caught with a paci in my mouth once, I said it was because I'd been grinding my teeth at night and was trying something out, which worked but I was mortified for a week and a half. I'd say find the best 'innocent' explanation you can and stick to it. Thigh highs? My legs were cold. I've been feeling cold lately. They're comfortable, I wasn't feeling well and wanted at least one thing right feeling. Try to avoid talking about DDLG or kinks of any kind, it really shouldn't be talked about with parents and such. I'm glad she didn't see the bottle, that would be waaay harder to wave off. If she does seem to get an idea, divert the conversation. There is NOTHING wrong with being a little but I do agree that being judged is scary and it might ruin little space for you. Either way, I know you can do it! You'll be super duper okay!

[Guest deleted 390]

first off never feel ashamed of what you are all you can do is just let things go where they lie .. im sure youll be fine so just smile and enjoy urself 

 

Thank you (': thats really reassuring you're so kind <3 hopefully I'll feel better I appreciate it. 

 

 

I got caught with a paci in my mouth once, I said it was because I'd been grinding my teeth at night and was trying something out, which worked but I was mortified for a week and a half. I'd say find the best 'innocent' explanation you can and stick to it. Thigh highs? My legs were cold. I've been feeling cold lately. They're comfortable, I wasn't feeling well and wanted at least one thing right feeling. Try to avoid talking about DDLG or kinks of any kind, it really shouldn't be talked about with parents and such. I'm glad she didn't see the bottle, that would be waaay harder to wave off. If she does seem to get an idea, divert the conversation. There is NOTHING wrong with being a little but I do agree that being judged is scary and it might ruin little space for you. Either way, I know you can do it! You'll be super duper okay!

 

I'll try to keep an innocent explanation if things do go that way. Thank you! It's really reassuring to know that I'm not the only one who got caught in a situation like this. Hopefully things do go well. I did get caught with the bottle, but I think I hope I can think of an innocent explanation for that. <3 

[Guest lil-kitten22]

For having bottles or sippy cups that dont allow spills there is always the explanation of its better for in my room so it doesnt spill if it gets knocked over, especially in the middle of the night or something. I know for me when the lights are out and i woke from thirst things would get knocked off the side table...

[Lola Step]

As everybody else has said, innocent explainations are best- Basically, just play dumb as heck "My legs were cold" "I didn't want to spill anything" etc; are usually the best responses, then if she pushes any further or brings up anything to do with DDLG just look confused as hell, she may even feel like she's the perverted one for being suspicious which would be pretty funny

[jaredstone363]

Don't worry and don't panic. It was bound to happen sooner or later, so think of it as a good thing that it happened now and you can deal with it. Everyone has given great advice, just keep it simple. When I was with my Little, my mom stopped by my place unexpectedly. I had a sippy cup on the counter to wash and my mom saw it and asked why I had a sippy cup. I just laughed it off and told her that Rosie (who she know was my girlfriend at the time) was always knocking over the glass of water she kept on the nightstand. I told my mom I bought it for Rosie as a joke but she uses it at night because it's funny and we laugh about it. Good luck and don't stress out over it

[MasterPhotog]

Regardless of what your mom says, she would have some idea about you.

A simple response of 'sometimes this makes me feel good ' should help her understand that this is what you want and she should back off. Don't worry and continue to be proud of who you're.