Does it matter if your little is older then you?

[Xans1998]

I'm curious to this and I would like to see the view of others thank you.

[Guest You're adorable]

Well,

 

I don't think so. I don't think that age does really affect the DDlg dynamic in any way. A little is a little and a caregiver is a caregiver. 

 

What I think you may be concerned about is the fact that DDlg seems to have this stigma on it that there has to be some kind of age gap between a little and a caregiver and that caregiver should be this experienced, mature, parental-like figure and a little should be this young, inexperienced, childlish figure. 

 

But this really doesn't depend on age in my eyes. Sure, with age comes experience, but just age itself is not a good way to judge the quality of a relationship. Instead you should focus about compatibility, and whether you like being together and spending time together. Just like in a relationship without any kind of "dynamic".

 

It's as simple as that. 

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Not sure if these topics are exactly the same, but you might find something you are looking for in one of these:

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/18596-how-young-is-too-young-to-be-a-daddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/20100-being-older-than-your-little/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/33851-the-new-%E2%80%9Ctrend%E2%80%9D/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/33692-age-of-a-ddmd/

[LittleTeacup]

Well I'm 28 and while I don't have a caregiver I wouldn't care if they're a bit younger or older. Because the person could be 25 or 26 and still be a mature adult. A good match is a good match. Why should I discount somebody who matches with me perfectly for the sole reason that they were born after I was? What kind of a disqualifier is that?

[hisangel]

There isn't much of an age difference between me and my Daddy. But I am older then him by a few months. It hasn't effected things really.

[babygirlG430]

My Daddy is 11 years younger than me, and we’re great together

[XmochiX]

It really depends on the person, but I won't date a CG under the age of 25 because I feel like 18-24-yr-olds are more likely to be immature/reckless. That's just my experience, though, and as I said it varies from person to person. I was always very mature for my age as a child and now it's the exact opposite, for example, and I'm 28.

[Misha]

I'm 7 years older than my Daddy.

[LittleCelticLass]

I hope not, I'm 9 years older than my Daddy.

[junebug0325]

I personally don’t think so. I can’t talk from experience because my Daddy is 9 years older than I am, and he is the only Daddy I have ever had.

 

But, I would say no. In my opinion a caregiver is a caregiver and a little is a little. Age doesn’t really matter when it comes to a relationship.

 

June bug xxx

[Daddy'sBabyGirl1]

Of course not!   Littles are littles and daddies (mommies, etc.) are daddies.  It's about who you are as a person, and age won't change that.  Besides, plenty of littles (myself included) are actually really mature when they're big.  I'm 8 months older than my daddy and I joke about it with him all the time.  It hasn't stopped him from being a great daddy.

[Fading Kitten]

no

my daddy is almost 2 years younger than me

its about the dynamic

[Little kaiya]

There is a significant age gap between my Daddy and I with me being older and him being younger and we have been together over a year and our relationship is stronger than ever.

 

Rather than age being an issue I think the more important factor is maturity.

 

Little kaiya

[ReeferMadness]

I'm kind of surprised this is a question to so many people. To me, the fantasy is what you make it and it is in fact, just a fantasy. If you can pretend you're a Daddy or pretend you're a little and get into that frame of mind, then you are whatever you're pretending to be. Some may not have the experience, discipline or patience to be a Daddy, but nothing says that an otherwise capable older man can't be a little girl or a younger woman can't be a Daddy. It's called Age Play for a reason.