Is it okay to have a platonic daddy/caregiver?

[PiggyPrincess]

Hi everywun. I'm a little and have been for a long time, my little age is from 5-7. My current boyfriend thinks age regression is weird and I'm scared to tell him that I'm a little, but I have a very close friend that I've known for years who is okay with me being a little and being an online caregiver... Does this make me less of a little? Is anyone else in a similar situation?

[Momma'sBoy]

No! Not at all!

 

My wife gets too weirded out when I'm little so I try not to regress with her.

 

Instead I have a few littles I share a platonic friendship with. I act little with them online, we have fun, and little me is happy.

 

I don't have any caregiver friends at the moment but I could totally see having a platonic Mommy/Daddy as well.

Edited February 1, 2019 by Momma'sBoy

[Amelia2610]

Yes. My ex CG was non sexual with me.

[Guest Aetherr]

you seem to be asking 2 questions so to reply to your title of course it's okay but talk to your partner first he may not share your kink but he has a right to know

 

to answer the actual question of court it doesent having an online caregiver is for some people the only way and to say that makes you less of little is gatekeeping and I personally hate gatekeeping in all forms

[LittleTeacup]

Being little is about you, not about your partner. Lots of littles are little by themselves or just have friends they're little around.

 

I started thinking I might be a little because of how I act around my best friend, who is naturally motherly. I often get pretty childlike around her. But no way do I want anything sexual from her - we're friends!

 

 

However, you should let your boyfriend know if you're going to let your friend be your caregiver. If you try to keep it a secret, he may view it as cheating. Even though you're afraid of him thinking you're weird, you really have to tell him. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a partner you're afraid to share such a big part of yourself with? Maybe he just thinks age regression is weird because he doesn't understand it. You could gently enlighten him and reassure him he won't have to do anything he's uncomfortable with and that your relationship with your friend is platonic only.

[-SoftBunny-]

Hiii!! C:

 

I don't think having a CG behind the back of your boyfriend is a good Idea. If he thinks it looks wierd maybe it's because he doesn't understand! Try to talk about it with him first and then if he don't want to be a part of this lifestyle you still can have\do:

 

- little friends irl or online

- be little by yourself

 

Otherwise, it's really important to talk to him about having a caregiver (if he doesn't want to be one) and if he is ok with that. He could think that is cheating or maybe won't like it at all. Communication is the KEY don't be afraid!

[Groon]

Communication is key. Also knowing what you want and deciding if it's worth pursuing are key factors. Good luck!

[Littlepiggy0]

It's a great idea. Be honest with everyone though!

[Yuna_Marie]

Communicate with him  having a CG with out him knowing is a bad idea.

[junebug0325]

So, I first want to start off by saying that it’s totally okay to have a non-sexual caregiver. However, I would cation you not to get a caregiver behind the back of your boyfriend. Ultimately, anyone that is going to be close to you other than your boyfriend should be talked about and discussed with him, because he has a right to know. In this position, I would advise you to talk with him about you being little and about your thoughts on having your friend be your caregiver. He might think it’s “weird” because he doesn’t understand what age regression actually is. So having an open conversation with him explaining what being a “little” actually is and telling him how age regression affects you might help him understand a little more.

 

I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck!

 

Junebug xxx

Edited February 9, 2019 by junebug0325

[BabyBeans]

Like others have said, he may only think it is weird because he doesn't fully understand it! I have a friend who, when he first found out about my little space, he did his own "research" and said he thought it was odd. So, we both spent a while talking about what little space is to me and what age regression is and everything, and funny enough, we're finding out he may also be a little! (At least when he gets high lmao) 

Just take some time to think about what little space and age regression is to you and talk to him about it with him. 

[Angel24]

it is 100000000000% okay to have a platonic Daddy! My platonic Daddy was the best Daddy I ever had and I will never regret our time together!