I’m in trouble

[DaddyDomMoon]

I’ve been messing up bad with my little and now she’s talking about not wanting to be little anymore but you can tell she doesn’t, she’s just scared. She distrusts me and is more scared of me. I’ve tried to make her feel better and to try to let her know that I’m here and I’m not going to leave but she doesn’t seem to believe me. Please help.

[Amelia2610]

It’s hard for anyone to offer any input without knowing the context?

[I_AM_THE_SENATE]

Don't really have any context but I'll do my best...

You can't control someone elses' behaviour, only your own. Thus, cease whatever behaviour constitutes "messing up" as much as you can. 

 

If it's a case of her having trust issues (which I think i'm picking up on here?) and you are not seeing improvements despite reassurance it would likely be wise to move on. You can help someone with their issues but if they don't show any improvement it isn't worth it. If they do show improvements then great keep at it and things should slowly improve.

 

That's all I can really say without knowing why she is scared of you etc

[MasterPhotog]

Communicate, find and FULLY resolve her concerns and reasons for distrust, while keeping in mind that she may have completely different reason for not wanting to be your little that has nothing to do with you. 
Good luck!