Seperation Anxiety in Littles

[KittyPrettyKitty]

Hiya!

I have a lot of separation anxiety when it comes to my daddy going out some place or doing something without me. I feel really bad for holding him back from doing all the things he wants to. How do you guys cope with your CG leaving/being away?

[starrykitty]

Hihi, hope you’re okay! I think the best thing to do is to make a list of things you can do on your own, whether they’re little activities or big ones, just start a list and add to it whenever you think of something new. And when your caregiver isn’t around, choose something from the list to do. I know it’s really hard being away from them and it hurts a lot but it’s just one of those things you have to adjust to. Also if you feel bad about him leaving, you can always do something that will involve him in an indirect way, like make him something (pictures/drawings etc) or bake something that he likes, send him pics and videos and cute messages while he’s away, watch his fave movie/programme just so you feel closer to him. I hope you find something to help you with this, you’ll be okay <3

[Amelia2610]

I try to, by talking to people, or self distract by watching videos online when I’m not at work, that is.

 

But it’s not getting better because recent events which is personal has actually made it worse. I guess I’ll cope on a day by day basis, and it’s tough when it’s LDR.

[Guest DaddysLittleCupcake]

I have this....I never like to be separated from Daddy. And honestly I have no clue how to fix it I don’t want to annoy daddy

[KittyPrettyKitty]

I have this....I never like to be separated from Daddy. And honestly I have no clue how to fix it I don’t want to annoy daddy

Same </3

[Guest DaddysLittleCupcake]

Same </3

I’ll see if maybe my Daddy can help with this question....

[Cupcakesdaddy31]

Idk about other daddy’s but if my little isn’t beside me I get annoyed in public fast and I’m always checking to see if she’s ok. I love when my little blows my phone up even if it’s 1000 texts I never get annoyed daddy loves her to much. I say just keep pics of him where you can see them anytime you want and maybe record his voice so you can hear him when you need.

[Lola Step]

So this is just something random I read and I know it seems silly so it probably won't even help, it isn't even based in DDLG it was originally an idea from an actual mother but anyway- Basically what she would do is anytime she had to do something with the new baby and here first two children got fussy or jealous she would bring out a box of toys or games and books for them to play with but they would ONLY get to use these things at that time so they were always so excited to see them. So maybe you and your Daddy build a box of your most favourite fun things that you will ONLY get to play with when he goes out? You could even get your daddy to add "surprise items" that he hints about throughout the week so that you'll almost be begging him to go out just so you can see what it is. I know it sounds like a silly superficial suggestion but I think that the mental side of this problem is something only you and maybe your Daddy can work on, so I wish you luck

[LittleTeacup]

I suggest maybe having your daddy buy or make you a special shirt that you can wear when he's not there. Or one of his shirts. So you can feel something  that reminds you of him all around you!