My housemate is somehow a Little I think?

[gyeongwong]

As a Dom I'm quite experienced with BDSM. But. I didn't think my housemate would be one. I'm Bisexual and I think I'm having problems understanding things.

 

So, couple weeks ago I found out that my housemate who is a guy was a little. He was on this forum. I saw it on his phone when he left it in the living room. It was then that I suspected him being a little.

 

I didn't ask further though. I'm still testing whether I was right or not. I decided to switch to disney movies on movie night.

 

He did tense a bit when I put it on but few minutes after he was so into it. And lately, I found out that his friends always gives him keychains and its the very childish ones. When I ask his friends they casually answer that he likes them.

 

I really think he is a little. It's funny when I think about it. Because he always seemed so happy when we were shopping for art supplies. We join an art club and he really like it.

 

So the question is what should I do next? Should I push further or just wait for him to confess? I really don't want to push his boundaries and stuff. If he wants it to be his secret that I'm fine with it. But I also want to try out Little Space since I've never been one before.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

You could just try talking to each other? https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/38653-really-really-need-help-pleasee/

[onkizomba]

Just talking like grownups is the best way. Those games really do a lot more harm than help.

 

And by pressuring him, you'll just bring him in defensive!

 

The best time to talk would be after you've done something fun together or drank some beers - relaxed environment Then you can confess yourself first saying... oh I really like BDSM and have tried some stuff - I know it's weird...but oh well! Do you have any weird kinks yourself? 

 

Just initiate the talk in from the good place and you'll do great!

[squishymonster]

h-hewwoo, detective squishy here!!

I'm not saying I'm calling bs, but I'm calling bs.

From provided link above, they've joined suspiciously recently with a pretty throwaway username. They have their first post (which was probably the one supposedly seen on the phone) and a second post restating this exact event.

You say you're quite experienced with bdsm but this is your first post here on this account, and I doubt you'd really linger on your roommate's phone long enough to note the website. even then, why would you make a publicity stunt out of it? Why would you knowingly come intruding into his safe haven targeting him?

It doesn't add up, or you're just an idiot who can't spare privacy for your roommate uwu

[Misha]

h-hewwoo, detective squishy here!!

I'm not saying I'm calling bs, but I'm calling bs.

From provided link above, they've joined suspiciously recently with a pretty throwaway username. They have their first post (which was probably the one supposedly seen on the phone) and a second post restating this exact event.

You say you're quite experienced with bdsm but this is your first post here on this account, and I doubt you'd really linger on your roommate's phone long enough to note the website. even then, why would you make a publicity stunt out of it? Why would you knowingly come intruding into his safe haven targeting him?

It doesn't add up, or you're just an idiot who can't spare privacy for your roommate uwu

 

Was going to respond until I read this reply. I agree completely.

 

I'll also point this out...

 

Both accounts do not use good grammar and both accounts use short sentences with overuse of periods.

 

I'm not really sure what the point of doing this is? I did once meet someone who was like this and enjoyed pretending to be multiple people online, for fun and for attention. 

Edited January 29, 2019 by Misha

[Guest Avi]

The title alone was all i needed to call bs lmao

[Guest Prat]

You could just try talking to each other? https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/38653-really-really-need-help-pleasee/

Plot intensifies!

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I called BS when I seen they called How to Train your Dragon a Disney movie. Any Daddy knows HTTYD is Dreamworks! Pfft.