Should I tell my parents about my Daddy?

[Guest Baby_Kitty9818]

Okay,to start,I don't live with my parents full time,I'm attending a vocational school,but I visit on weekends sometimes. My Daddy and I are in an LDR relationship, so I text him a lot on kik. My mom wants to know who I'm talking to, and to be frank,I'm terrified when it comes to thinking about telling them I'm seeing someone LDR,because I'm worried they'll find out I'm a little, and I can't see that going over well...*deep breath* so,this is my problem, and I'm not sure what to do...

[Guest vali_]

If you are uncomfortable with telling your mom that you are in a ldr with someone just tell her that you are talking to guy that lives further away and then when you are more comfortable you can tell her that you guys are dating. That's what I did and my parents were fine with it. Hipe everything works out!

[squishymonster]

She's probably not going to know you're a little because there's a large likelihood she doesn't know what one is. My mother's witnessed me date various guys online from like 13 on, she never found out anything I talked about with any of them. She only knew what I told her, and I kept my text conversations safe around her. (Not that I was doing anything explicit at 13 anyways, but I found even saying "I love you" too much for my mom to see)

I think another pointer is making sure your relationship isn't so kink-based that that's all it is, because then of course you're gonna feel a need to hide it from everyone. It probably won't have much of a future if you're not proud enough of your partner to tell everyone who asks about them in a sfw manner. (Not an accusation, just a heads up because I've noticed a lot of ddlg ldr are literally just that instead of investing yourself in the other person)

Your mom's probably just gonna be happy you're getting yourself out there.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

I am confused. How does an LDR equal ddlg? If you tell your mom you are talking to a guy, she will automatically assume you are a little? That's a pretty big stretch. Unless your mom is the type to get nosy and look through your phone?

[Guest Aetherr]

i dont understand?

you dont need to tell her anything if you dont want to

you can just as easily make up any kind of lie you want if its privacy you want

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

My adopted mother knows everything and I have no reason to hide anything. That being said, what Sachita said sounds spot on. Tell her or don't, I don't see how it has any bearing on anything or how it could ever be associated with being a little.

[LittleTeacup]

Say you're texting a friend and leave it at that. Eventually you can introduce him as your boyfriend, but you don't have to bring up calling him daddy.

[Guest BackFromTheDead]

Now a days it’s pretty common to have LDRs. So I don’t think it would come as a surprise, unless you’re first generation American born. Anyhow, just be honest about it. Tell them that you’re seeing someone long distance and if they start asking how just say we meet on a forum (a forum you both have interests in like anime or video games). You never have to talk about you being a little and the more you approach this from a mature candid manner, they’d be none the wiser.

[Quirkygrl16]

Just say its a friend??

[fancysir]

You don't have to tell her anything.  I am a very open person myself...especially when it comes to relationships.  But now I have learned to keep certain things to myself.  It is unfortunate that many people don't understand ddlg and they often are very judgmental.  Spare yourself the judgments and unwanted advice of others.  Only share if you feel safe with that person.