I'm a little and a babygil and I did something really stupid..

[littlegirl ella]

This post is not going to be a good one. I did something very very stupid. I was on a different kink site and put a post on woman for woman looking for a sexual friend. Dumb idea! I didn't ask permission to begin with, and it was just something to do but it was the WRONG thing to do. I wasn't intending on following through if anyone replied because my posts usually don't get replies anyway and there are so many fakes and players that it is rare to even get a reply anyway. I really upset my Daddy and I want to know how I can make this up to him. I feel terrible that he hurts because of this. Daddy doesn't deserve this. What can I do to remedy the situation? I want to make real life friends and since I don't have any luck with posts about that, I added the sexual part to it hoping to find someone. My original goal however was to become friends first then talk to Daddy about playing with her then talking with her about going Us.... But I did it the wrong way and hurt my Daddy. I feel really terrible about it.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

honestly, i'm not sure that searching for an answer to this online is going to be the solution here.

it sort of sounds like not communicating with your partner + seeking out the answers online is exactly what you got you into this mess. 

 

sit down with your partner + talk to him. 

show him this post, if that's easier. 

the only thing that's going to make this better, if it's something your relationship can recover from, is asking your partner directly how to make it better. 

none of us are going to be able to advise you on how to help him recover from how he feels. 

only he can tell you what he needs now. 

 

my only advise here would be to accept whatever he says. 

as you stated, you are the one who made a mistake here -- + it's good that you are willing to admit it + want to atone, but your partner might feel differently.

he may need space. he may want you to get off all social media. he may want to talk about it. he may set down a hard rule of not adding a play partner in ever. 

whatever he decides, remember that this is your relationship.

the only real authority on what happens is you two. 

 

good luck.

[LittleCelticLass]

Honesty, the two of you need to talk to eachother. Searching for answers from random strangers is not really going to help. Open, honest communication between two adults is what needs to happen.

[MasterPhotog]

Now that it's done, all you can do it NOT do it again.
If your Daddy knows it, explain your original intentions to him, promise him never to do it again and deal with the consequences that he sees fit. Good luck!

[Guest Aetherr]

you can't go looking for friends on the basis of lie. that's the first thing I know it's th Internet and people lie for protection and many other reasons but how do you expect to be taken seriously at all if you lie?? as for your daddy I hope you two work it out what I will say is whatever he needs at this time you need to do your best to meet him on it and make him plenty aware of if you actually wanted a play partner or not because if I were in his shoes well... yeah I'm glad I'm not at at time like this the best thing you can do is communicate and make your daddy feel like he matters you need to listen to him and be willing to work on any issues. I wish you guys luck for the future

[littlegirl ella]

I want to jump in here real quick and say a few things. One, thank you all for not beating her up. She is a good girl most the time and I love her dearly.

Second. I don't understand her reasoning behind the ad, looking for a sexual encounter. Does it matter if it's with a female or a male. We started out as Dominant/Submissive. We did fall in love with each other, no I'll speak for myself and let her speak for herself.

I fell in love with her and it was while we were in the D/s relationship that as a reward I got her a female to enjoy. This female was a lesbian and she was for her, not I. It was also during this time I was told she enjoyed other females but preferred males. It was also during this part of our relationship I realized and pointed out to her that I thought she was a little, she agreed and we both started exploring this and learning about it. My point is, the one thing I was always glad of waz how well we could communicate, we were able to talk about any and everything. I know that I'm very capable of giving her an orgasm. Why, why does she feel now that she can't talk to me and why does she want to go find someone else. Behind my back at that

I'm trying to juggle the dominant I am bring your daddy I want to be

[littlegirl ella]

Yes I did sign in using her screen name. Simple reason Being my name is not important as I'm not looking for sympathy and I am not looking to trade her in

[littlegirl ella]

Thank you all for your opinions and suggestions. We are talking about this now (yes Daddy gave me permission to be on here) and what I did was the wrong way to go about doing what I thought was a good way. I should know better than to make a decision like this by myself! There was no other intention behind what I did. I am very disappointed in myself. And I will accept what he decides to do. I was very stupid. Thanks again. PS: I'm not going to be on here anymore unless Daddy gives me permission to be on here. I'm going to do everything in my power to help Daddy understand that I recognize what a foolish thing I did. I have taken it upon myself to restrict myself from the internet until Daddy says otherwise. I am so sorry Daddy.

[Featheredfaith]

[DustBunny93]

I'm glad you guys are working this out.

 

On a side note, you (her daddy) say you logged in under her name to remain anonymous... But you do realize that we can see who she is with in her signature?

Lol it's not so anonymous. It's not important me saying that I just thought it was funny.