Confused person with ddlg

[Kris]

Can someone help me with my problem? Im just confused if im a little or something. Last year, i want to explore DDLG but i couldn't figure out if I'm a little or a switch. So i just kinda felt out of interest but i still would like to know the experience.

 

Today, I'm kinda confused with myself because of my actions. I noticed that i tend to be more childish? Like I'm needy for my friend's warmth and i feel safe and not tense when I'm with them. Especially today, i wanted to be my friend's side and just hold their arm and cuddle with it i guess? And there was a time that they jokingly baby talked me and i did that as well. But the problem is i couldn't stop it for a moment talking like that and i kinda forced myself to stop it when i noticed the way that i was talking. There's this urge that i want someone to cuddle with me, give me hugs and take care of me.

 

Idk really. Maybe this is me being childish? I really don't know and I'm so confused. Please anyone help me understand if there's a possibility of me being a little which is kinda impossible? Idk.

Sorry for the long post tho

[LittleCelticLass]

If you think you're a little, then you are. Why is it impossible? There are lots of other threads like this. Maybe do some reading, and see how others view being little? I'm not quite understanding what the question is.

[DustBunny93]

You probably are a little and are experiencing something new to you.

 

When I first discovered that I was a little I noticed that I too was a little more childish than others my age. I was more open to be childish and goofy.

 

I think that your behavior is normal of a little. A lot of people have a certain age range they feel as a little. It might take time for you to figure out. For example, some people act younger than others. Some people like diapers, bottles, sippy cups, pacifier, etc. Others might be a little "older" and not feel the age to want a diaper but might still want a sippy cup.

 

There is so much here to read and people to talk to.

 

I am around 2-3 years old when I feel little. I like the idea of a diaper or pull up but don't use them due to not having privacy at home. I like bottles and sippy cups. I would use a pacifier if I could. I like younger kid tv shows like "Bubble Guppies", "Blue's Clues" and "Peppa Pig".

Unfortunately I live with my parents and brothers so I am kinda limited to what I feel comfortable doing at home. I usually wait until everyone is gone to bring out my sippy cup. But I watch my cartoons on my phone or laptop.

 

I would just research on Google or even here and see what you think.

[LittleTeacup]

I'm kinda like you. I just feel more childlike than others my age (I'm 28). For a long time I've done "little-ish" things privately, like giggling in a higher pitched voice, hopping up and down, and squatting like a child does to look at things on the floor. If I'm alone outside I might talk to the birds or trees in a childlike way. But it was only recently the thought occurred to me that I might be a little! When I'm with my friends, I often want to cuddle too, especially with my best friend who has a natural motherly personality.

 

From what I've read, every little is different, just like we're all different when we're big too. Some littles like pacifiers or diapers while others don't. Some like to talk in baby speak and others don't. For example, I talk in a higher pitched voice, but I still use proper grammar and advanced vocabulary. Some littles want a daddy or mommy to help them dress, clean them, feed them, etc but other littles prefer doing those things themselves. Some littles don't even want a daddy or mommy at all and just want to be a little by themselves!

 

I wouldn't worry about whether you "qualify" as a little or not. Just continue being yourself and doing what you like. A label doesn't change who you are.