Am I a Little though.

[Guest hjmirzanis]

I think I'm a little? I don't know. Littles act like a little kid or a todler right? I'm quite childish but I'm normally childish. I don't know. It's my first time about this kind of thing and I think I'm not a little. Just a bit childish and needy? I'm normally childish with my friends and family.

 

It's my first time posting things like this too. I'm just really confused and I didn't know who I should ask so I tried googling and I found this so I'm trying to get answers.

 

I'm just actually a confused, lost person.

[onkizomba]

Little can mean different things to everyone.

 

In general DDLG comes from Dominant/Submissive energies.

 

Yet DDLG takes it further with Ageplay..where one person takes a clear Daddy/Mommy role..and other side - Little girl is allowing to be taken care off

 

On one version 50 Shades of Grey is part of Dom/Sub play without childish elements

 

My girlfriend loves cuddles, sweet emojis... doesn't mean that she needs baby clothes...yet I view her as my Little and take care of here

 

You don't need to be childish and needy... You just need to enjoy being taken care of, be in that "princess" role...being a sweet girl

 

Hope it helps.

 

Read this article to learn about the DDLG further.

Edited January 31, 2019 by onkizomba

[MasterPhotog]

Little can mean different things to everyone.

 

In general DDLG comes from Dominant/Submissive energies.

 

Yet DDLG takes it further with Ageplay..where one person takes a clear Daddy/Mommy role..and other side - Little girl is allowing to be taken care off

 

On one version 50 Shades of Grey is part of Dom/Sub play without childish elements

 

My girlfriend loves cuddles, sweet emojis... doesn't mean that she needs baby clothes...yet I view her as my Little and take care of here

 

You don't need to be childish and needy... You just need to enjoy being taken care of, be in that "princess" role...being a sweet girl

 

Hope it helps.

 

Read this article to learn about the DDLG further.

 

Well said!

[starrykitty]

hey hjmirzanis! Hope you’re okay I guess there’s lots of different ways to look at it but I don’t feel you have to “act” a specific way to be little. For me, I think it’s more of a headspace. You dont have to do and say certain things to be little, you just have to feel little and if you feel like you’re in your little head space or your little space then that makes you just as valid as any other little. You don’t always have to show your littleness outwardly, it can also be a very personal thing that isn’t as noticeable as it is with others. But that does not make you any less little. There’s no specific criteria you have to meet to be little, if you feel like you are then just embrace that feeling and explore it a little more so you can understand more about yourself and the things that you’re comfortable with and the things that you enjoy I Hope this helps, things will become clearer over time as you learn more about what makes you feel happy

[Guest hjmirzanis]

Oh. So does that means that if I'm falling to some kind of headspace, I'm unconsciously falling to little space?

 

And thank you for replying so fast! I didn't think anyone would reply to this at least for a couple of weeks.

 

And sometimes I do feel something weird like falling to somekind of headspace. If I was sick or maybe getting a bit too happy, I get a little... what's the word? Needy, I suppose. I want someone to cuddle with me, take care of me. So, does that mean I unconsciously fell into littlespace?

[Guest gekki]

little can be anything form 1-15ish

[MasterPhotog]

Oh. So does that means that if I'm falling to some kind of headspace, I'm unconsciously falling to little space?

 

And thank you for replying so fast! I didn't think anyone would reply to this at least for a couple of weeks.

 

And sometimes I do feel something weird like falling to somekind of headspace. If I was sick or maybe getting a bit too happy, I get a little... what's the word? Needy, I suppose. I want someone to cuddle with me, take care of me. So, does that mean I unconsciously fell into littlespace?

 

Yes, feeling needy, wanting someone to cuddle with you, take care of you describes you in being or in the process of going into little space. 

Keep in mind that regardless of how you feel at times, you're still you, therefore, accept it as a part of being you, continue to enjoy and love yourself as being special.