Foster caregivers?

[Harley_Quinn]

Is this a thing? Has anybody had one? How does it work? How would you go about finding one?

 

*mods can shut this off if need be, I know it may cross lines*

[NewDaddy27!]

Do you mean like a Mommy or Daddy taking you in after your previous Mommy or Daddy left?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i've absolutely heard about this before! 

a temporary arrangement -- sexual or not is up to the pairing, but it's usually not -- where a CG helps out a little (as stated above!) 

i'm not sure how you'd go about finding one, but i'd imagine it'd be like looking for any other partner, just be upfront about your desires + needs -- including the temporary status of it. one of my ex-partners had one after their former Daddy broke up with them suddenly. 

 

i think the most important thing going into this would be transparency. 

this can get complicated fast, so be open + honest from the beginning about your expectations! 

[Featheredfaith]

I have a platonic Daddy Dom friend that this is the ONLY kind of relationship he likes. He actually calls himself a foster Daddy. He has a bunch of littles that tag him as home base when shit hits the fan. I considered it when things went bad in my relationship, but because my Daddy was specifically worried about him at one point I didnt go there.

 

I know for him, he let's the littles set the terms. Whatever they need, within reason. I dont know if it is ever sexual, but I think not. One of the things he does is try to get to the bottom of what went wrong in the relationship to help them address it and grow.

 

What does he get out of it? He gets to be a part of their life. He feels safe. He feels helpful. He feels appreciated. He feels like he makes a difference. He has responsibilities with less expectations. He also is faithful to his family as none of these girls expect him to be forever DaddyDom.

 

He's a pretty cool guy in my book.

[Guest ChisaiMixy]

I have a platonic Daddy Dom friend that this is the ONLY kind of relationship he likes. He actually calls himself a foster Daddy. He has a bunch of littles that tag him as home base when shit hits the fan. I considered it when things went bad in my relationship, but because my Daddy was specifically worried about him at one point I didnt go there.

 

I know for him, he let's the littles set the terms. Whatever they need, within reason. I dont know if it is ever sexual, but I think not. One of the things he does is try to get to the bottom of what went wrong in the relationship to help them address it and grow.

 

What does he get out of it? He gets to be a part of their life. He feels safe. He feels helpful. He feels appreciated. He feels like he makes a difference. He has responsibilities with less expectations. He also is faithful to his family as none of these girls expect him to be forever DaddyDom.

 

He's a pretty cool guy in my book.

This is the exact kind of DaddyDom/Caregiver that I am looking for, you have a great friend!