Being little in public without controlling yourself - Normal??

[-SoftBunny-]

Hewoo everyone!

 

It's being a long time since I didn't post teehee

So I was wondering if anyone had the same problem as me when they go in public with their caregiver (or without):

 

- Being in littlespace and act like a little!!

 

When I go out with my Daddy I go much more in littlespace but it's hard to hide everything I do as a little!!

I know that it's very bad to be "too much" because you can't involve everyone in your kink but sometimes when you have a little too much fun you don't make attention.. Anyone in the same situation as me?

 

Don't get me wrong: I'm very careful but sometimes I make some mistake. Any advice on how can I control more that?? is it realllyyyyyyy wrong??

 

any help or advice is welcome!!

Thank chuuuu!

[SamL]

Hewoo everyone!

 

It's being a long time since I didn't post teehee

So I was wondering if anyone had the same problem as me when they go in public with their caregiver (or without):

 

- Being in littlespace and act like a little!!

 

When I go out with my Daddy I go much more in littlespace but it's hard to hide everything I do as a little!!

I know that it's very bad to be "too much" because you can't involve everyone in your kink but sometimes when you have a little too much fun you don't make attention.. Anyone in the same situation as me?

 

Don't get me wrong: I'm very careful but sometimes I make some mistake. Any advice on how can I control more that?? is it realllyyyyyyy wrong??

 

any help or advice is welcome!!

Thank chuuuu!

 

Well, my little is never without me, but regardless - her acting like a little is not a problem for either of us.  It is who she is.  If someone has a problem with that, well - they can bring it to me (and good luck with that).  I don't consider it wrong, so there is no attempt to control it.

[-SoftBunny-]

thank you for your opinion!

[purplepenguin]

I totally understand! Here's the thing though: most of the time, a little too much excitement will simply be interpreted as being slightly immature. In my opinion, as long as you aren't shoving your littleness in other people's faces, it's okay to squeal a little over some cute stuffies or get more giggly than the average adult.

[Amelia2610]

My Daddy and I have ways in which he will communicate to me discreetly if my behaviour is out of hand. Living in a conservative country in Asia often means that being discreet with behaviour is a must in public. That said, squealing over cute stuff is perfectly ok, imo.

[-SoftBunny-]

I totally understand! Here's the thing though: most of the time, a little too much excitement will simply be interpreted as being slightly immature. In my opinion, as long as you aren't shoving your littleness in other people's faces, it's okay to squeal a little over some cute stuffies or get more giggly than the average adult.

Yes I will never put my kink in people face but sometimes I don't see when people start to be around and I say or do a thing as a little..then I feel bad for it!

Thank you for your advice!

[-SoftBunny-]

My Daddy and I have ways in which he will communicate to me discreetly if my behaviour is out of hand. Living in a conservative country in Asia often means that being discreet with behaviour is a must in public. That said, squealing over cute stuff is perfectly ok, imo.

My Daddy help me too for being more discreet in public but sometimes I'm just too hype I guest!

[Guest]

I'm a little without a Daddy so talking from that perspective I try remember my own body cues for over excitement. If I start bouncing on my toes I know I need to reel it in. Squeezing stuff because I'm so happy = reel it in. If I do end up not catching myself in time and getting other peoples attention I already have a (truthful) answer. The convo goes something like.

 

Stranger: *smiles* well aren't you extra happy?

 

Me: Yes today is a beautiful day! OR Yes my day started out bad but I needed this *shows whatever I'm squishing the life out of* this makes it so much better!

 

The stranger nods or says that's nice. I give them a smile, thank them for talking to me and tell them I hope they have a beautiful day.

 

It is wonderful to hear you have a Daddy that lives near you for outings. Sit down for a convo and you can both think of some cues you give and then you can come up with a physical touch or action to remind you. Touching a place that isn't going to to send you to little space. Asking if you have your purse so you hold it with both hands. Touching you back, shoulder or hand. If you like Anime maybe a character or scene reference can be a signal for you to settle down a bit.

[Guest]

I totally understand! Here's the thing though: most of the time, a little too much excitement will simply be interpreted as being slightly immature. In my opinion, as long as you aren't shoving your littleness in other people's faces, it's okay to squeal a little over some cute stuffies or get more giggly than the average adult.

This is my opinion too. In addition if you aren't doing or saying anything that can be interpreted as sexual. As long as you aren't destroying and pulling stuff out of place or behaving rude most people think it is okay. Maybe odd, but okay.

[junebug0325]

I can slip into little space sometimes during public outings, but most of the time I am with my Daddy. Even though my little side is more upbeat and excited, in public I am normally shy and quiet when I slip into little space, for the exact reason of not wanting to attract attention.

 

If I do feel little, I normally whisper to my Daddy how I’m feeling, or grab his hand and give him a certain look. (He’s really good at understanding this look and other body language).

 

With this being said, I don’t think it’s a bad thing to be who you are in public. Obviously, we shouldn’t be wearing pacis and onesies in public, but getting excited over a stuffie or something, isn’t going to attract much attention. Even if it does, you might get a couple glances come your way or the occasional person say, “well aren’t you excited?” Or, “well aren’t you happy?” But don’t let this get to you, there are just some people out there that are curious and don’t have anything better to do with their lives than comment on something they see different/interesting.

 

In short, don’t be afraid to be who you are. If that means getting excited over something and squealing a little bit, that’s fine. People will just see it as you being “immature.” Littles have it hard enough already, and keeping your littleside hidden isn’t going to make you feel happy, and can also cause feelings of self-consciousness which can linger for a long period of time (which is never good for your self esteem!). So, in my opinion, don’t be afraid to be happy!

 

Thanks for reading! ^-^

[-SoftBunny-]

I'm a little without a Daddy so talking from that perspective I try remember my own body cues for over excitement. If I start bouncing on my toes I know I need to reel it in. Squeezing stuff because I'm so happy = reel it in. If I do end up not catching myself in time and getting other peoples attention I already have a (truthful) answer. The convo goes something like.

 

Stranger: *smiles* well aren't you extra happy?

 

Me: Yes today is a beautiful day! OR Yes my day started out bad but I needed this *shows whatever I'm squishing the life out of* this makes it so much better!

 

The stranger nods or says that's nice. I give them a smile, thank them for talking to me and tell them I hope they have a beautiful day.

 

It is wonderful to hear you have a Daddy that lives near you for outings. Sit down for a convo and you can both think of some cues you give and then you can come up with a physical touch or action to remind you. Touching a place that isn't going to to send you to little space. Asking if you have your purse so you hold it with both hands. Touching you back, shoulder or hand. If you like Anime maybe a character or scene reference can be a signal for you to settle down a bit.

That's if a reaaaally good advice!! thank you!

[-SoftBunny-]

I can slip into little space sometimes during public outings, but most of the time I am with my Daddy. Even though my little side is more upbeat and excited, in public I am normally shy and quiet when I slip into little space, for the exact reason of not wanting to attract attention.

 

If I do feel little, I normally whisper to my Daddy how I’m feeling, or grab his hand and give him a certain look. (He’s really good at understanding this look and other body language).

 

With this being said, I don’t think it’s a bad thing to be who you are in public. Obviously, we shouldn’t be wearing pacis and onesies in public, but getting excited over a stuffie or something, isn’t going to attract much attention. Even if it does, you might get a couple glances come your way or the occasional person say, “well aren’t you excited?” Or, “well aren’t you happy?” But don’t let this get to you, there are just some people out there that are curious and don’t have anything better to do with their lives than comment on something they see different/interesting.

 

In short, don’t be afraid to be who you are. If that means getting excited over something and squealing a little bit, that’s fine. People will just see it as you being “immature.” Littles have it hard enough already, and keeping your littleside hidden isn’t going to make you feel happy, and can also cause feelings of self-consciousness which can linger for a long period of time (which is never good for your self esteem!). So, in my opinion, don’t be afraid to be happy!

 

Thanks for reading! ^-^

Awwnn thank you for the great advice!! I feel better now!!

[LittleTeacup]

I normally try to act "mature" in public because I'm afraid of people saying mean things, but sometimes I do my natural childlike behaviors like (quietly) stomp my foot if I'm frustrated or start playing with something small in a toy store (nothing serious, but I like those physical puzzle things where you have to unlock two metal pieces by twisting them around).

 

As long as you aren't making a scene, I think it should be fine. Most people probably won't even notice.

[-SoftBunny-]

I normally try to act "mature" in public because I'm afraid of people saying mean things, but sometimes I do my natural childlike behaviors like (quietly) stomp my foot if I'm frustrated or start playing with something small in a toy store (nothing serious, but I like those physical puzzle things where you have to unlock two metal pieces by twisting them around).

 

As long as you aren't making a scene, I think it should be fine. Most people probably won't even notice.

Thanks for the advice c: