Is your daddy or little long distance? (Advice - NSFW)

[Adzel]

Hello, so here I am. I have been a long distance daddy for quite a long time. I would say around March we got into it. So, in march, @furrylilproblem and I got into a DDlg relationship. We started this after we started officially dating in February. It was a rough beginning though, knowing how to punish them or humiliate them. To enforce rules and the like. Well I am here to give all you long distance daddies or littles some advice in treating for your long distance little. Comments/add-ons are encouraged. Anyone who comments good advice will have this post edited with their suggestion and will be credited. Thank you.

 

So first things first. Most of my punishments and humiliations are NSFW. So I advise you already be in a form of sexual relationship with your little/daddy before reading.

 

[Punishments]

• If you are bad at choosing punishments sometimes, like me. You can always try https://wheeldecide.com/
• You can always do a video chat session and make your little strip their bottoms (and panties off) and have them spank themselves *HARD* x amount of times as a punishment
• Controlling orgasms is a fun one. I make furrylilproblem hold it for 5-10 seconds and sometimes I even make them stop touching all together then continue 10 seconds later.
• Having them wear no panties with something in their ass is something fun to do. And you get a nice show to masturbate to >.>
• Going off the same topic as spanking, get creative. Make them use spatulas, belts, flogs, etc. Never be afraid to get creative. You are their daddy. You make the rules.
• If it is an on/off DDlg relationship. Like they are not always in little space, make a day where they must always call you daddy/mommy, and if they fail, use one of the other punishments above.

[Humiliation]

• Most of these are taken from a comment my little left at https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/38224-my-little-enjoys-humiliation-however-we’re-long-distance/#entry195791
• Making your little keep a toy (whether it be a buttplug, dildo, or just something simple like a pen or a sharpie) in their ass/pussy while they're in a video chat with you for extended periods of time. It drives my little crazy when I tell them they are not allowed to move or hump it while it is in.
• Making your little wear no underwear beneath their clothing for a day, and requesting photos of proof or seeing it via video chat. This one is fun for embarrassing them. Especially if a family member comes down stairs >
• Make your little explain what they did wrong and why they are being punished while they are being punished.
• Making your little masturbate, shake their naked ass, etc while you watch on video chat. Amazing fap material and embarrassing all the same.
• Calling them names while they do it. Slut, whore, bitch, etc. That never fails.

[special comments]

 

I personally refrain from giving sexual punishments because it gives the impression that im using it to masquerade my sexual desires. Besides one can hardly consider it a punishment if she ultimately enjoys it - which is the case with my little. Hence said punishments became known as "funishments". I try to focus on disciplining my little through actions that will correct, acknowledge, and prevent said mistakes from occurring again. Examples include: writing assignments, apologetic visual representations, and taking away things she enjoys for x amount of time.

 

Every daddy exercises what they believe to be correct. I'm in no way criticizing your credibility/capability or validity as a daddy - im simply commenting on what works for me.

 

[End of Special Comments]

 

Thanks for reading. Comments and suggestions are always welcome.

Edited January 11, 2019 by Adzel

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

I personally refrain from giving sexual punishments because it gives the impression that im using it to masquerade my sexual desires. Besides one can hardly consider it a punishment if she ultimately enjoys it - which is the case with my little. Hence said punishments became known as "funishments". I try to focus on disciplining my little through actions that will correct, acknowledge, and prevent said mistakes from occurring again. Examples include: writing assignments, apologetic visual representations, and taking away things she enjoys for x amount of time.

 

Every daddy exercises what they believe to be correct. I'm in no way criticizing your credibility/capability or validity as a daddy - im simply commenting on what works for me.

Edited January 11, 2019 by Mr.Stuffykins

[Adzel]

I personally refrain from giving sexual punishments because it gives the impression that im using it to masquerade my sexual desires. Besides one can hardly consider it a punishment if she ultimately enjoys it - which is the case with my little. Hence said punishments became known as "funishments". I try to focus on disciplining my little through actions that will correct, acknowledge, and prevent said mistakes from occurring again. Examples include: writing assignments, apologetic visual representations, and taking away things she enjoys for x amount of time.

 

Every daddy exercises what they believe to be correct. I'm in no way criticizing your credibility/capability or validity as a daddy - im simply commenting on what works for me.

Whoa, thaank you so much. Honestly, this is some good advice and I will put it to practice.

[Amelia2610]

I think different strokes for different folks. My ex CG leans towards restraints and corporal punishments. (I learnt to stop cussing after being dragged into the bedroom a few times for meetings with Ms Hairbrush) etc.

 

I’m new to the big girl (sexual side of relationships) and my Daddy uses that only for big girl issues (cum swallowing once for serious breaches), but otherwise, it’s spanks over his knees for other stuff. He did warn that he might insist on submitting (confiscating) plushies to him as a way of taking away little time for misbehaviour. Usually his scoldings are terrible too.

I’m in a LDR with him, but punishments are irl though, when we meet.

[junebug0325]

My Daddy and I are long distance, and there are a few different types of punishments he gives me for different offenses.

 

For example, my Daddy has a set bedtime for me. It is very important that I get a good enough sleep to be able to get up in the morning and be ready for school. If I purposefully don’t go to sleep at that certain time, Daddy has a few ways of punishing me. For actual punishments, he normally does something like writing lines, or telling me I can’t watch cartoons with him. Something that I don’t actually like so I don’t do it again.

 

If I am acting out for attention (I’m a brat and Daddy knows this), he is able to notice and give me “funishments” or something that I like just to get me to shut up, lol. This is normally something we both enjoy, and normally has a sexual aspect to it.

 

Thanks for reading!

 

 

Junebug xxx