A little rant

[Guest Rena]

Hello, people of the community. Today, i'll share a little piece of my mind. Have you ever feel like you're being wanted, but that person doesnt have any intentions of having you in the end? I do. Too many times. Personally, im not the type to reach out to talk to someone even if i like them. Mostly they have to reach out to me and we keep the conversation going, IF i happen to be comfortable around them, thats when im reaching out to them. Initiating conversations and all. I dont care with the ones that reached out to me first but the next day, they just left me on read or dont reply to me anymore. Even if i happen want to talk to them about general stuff, they just....poof. BUT im far more upset to the ones who make me comfortable but in the end just leave me hanging, especially the one who made me like / love them. Look. If i ever do or say something wrong, just say it in my face. I could have understand better instead of stalking your account. Dont make me like / love you if you have no intention of doing the same to me. That's just mean, especially for people with fragile hearts and feelings. Who wants their feelings to be hanged and/or played? Im too fed up with people like that. I've lost count of it. Even if i point them out, its no use. They wont just magically turn their attitude like the back of their hands. For those who feel that im indirectly pointing at you and reach out to me, whatever excuses you have, save it. If you're being honest, then i appreciate it. I'll forgive you but i wont forget. The rest depends on how much effort you want me to be back in your life. I know im not the perfect little to have, especially when i live in Indonesia which is like... 0,00000001% chance of having a caregiver; im too far away from the majority of them. I have to speak out about it. Im too fed up with those kinds of people. Its not a great change, but i just want to say whats on my mind. Thank you for your attention and have a nice day Edited January 10, 2019 by Rena

[Guest Prat]

Nice rant

[DuskZA]

I'll approve this message

[Guest Aetherr]

thiS. far too many people get left in emotional purgatory because the other person lacks the spine or decency to be honest they forget there is a person on the other side or flat out don't care but I would prefer to believe the former..

[DaddyDom3238]

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way and that you have been treated poorly, unfortunately this is a common occurrence and happen s to Daddy's as well. Its so easy for someone to be cruel online as there is no person on the other end of the phone or in front of them to call them out on it. Additionally, they don't have to hear the pain in the person's voice or the look of sadness on their face. I recommend treading lightly and taking your time with whomever you meet, see if they will talk on the phone if it is online only as you can often get a good sense of a persons intentions and their character by their voice and how they say things not what they say. 

Do not allow cruel people to cause you to think all Daddy's are not genuine. I wish you the best and hope that you find a Daddy to treat you like you should be treated. 

[Daddy PrX]

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way and that you have been treated poorly, unfortunately this is a common occurrence and happen s to Daddy's as well. Its so easy for someone to be cruel online as there is no person on the other end of the phone or in front of them to call them out on it. Additionally, they don't have to hear the pain in the person's voice or the look of sadness on their face. I recommend treading lightly and taking your time with whomever you meet, see if they will talk on the phone if it is online only as you can often get a good sense of a persons intentions and their character by their voice and how they say things not what they say. 

I'll agree with this, online a lot of things can be misunderstood and when/if things do go bad/rough between a couple it's a lot harder to fix online as you can't show/do the little things that show you care, you can only say you do but after a rough patch it's often not believed.

 

[SamL]

So, what is big you doing to keep yourself safe for next time?

[Guest Rena]

thiS. far too many people get left in emotional purgatory because the other person lacks the spine or decency to be honest they forget there is a person on the other side or flat out don't care but I would prefer to believe the former..

basically irresponsible for activating one's heart.

[Guest Rena]

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way and that you have been treated poorly, unfortunately this is a common occurrence and happen s to Daddy's as well. Its so easy for someone to be cruel online as there is no person on the other end of the phone or in front of them to call them out on it. Additionally, they don't have to hear the pain in the person's voice or the look of sadness on their face. I recommend treading lightly and taking your time with whomever you meet, see if they will talk on the phone if it is online only as you can often get a good sense of a persons intentions and their character by their voice and how they say things not what they say. 

Do not allow cruel people to cause you to think all Daddy's are not genuine. I wish you the best and hope that you find a Daddy to treat you like you should be treated. 

 i tend not to judge any strangers or anyone in general. honestly even if they are assholes, but through honesty is much better.

[Guest Rena]

I'll agree with this, online a lot of things can be misunderstood and when/if things do go bad/rough between a couple it's a lot harder to fix online as you can't show/do the little things that show you care, you can only say you do but after a rough patch it's often not believed.

 

but still, communication is the key

[Guest Rena]

So, what is big you doing to keep yourself safe for next time?

i honestly dont know. i tend to not judge anyone especially at first sight bcs i still want to see their potential