Why does he do this?

[Devils_miscarage_199]

My daddy is always making me feel like its his fault he had to move away, he majes me send him dirty pics, he asks about me, but if i ever askes him anout himself, he'd go silent, my daddys older than me by 5 years, and im worried hes a bad daddy, i need gelp knowing if he is or not, and why he keeps doing this to me...

[Daddys little Baby_Bear]

From what you said he sounds like a very bad daddy. In fact he doesn't sound like a real daddy at all, just someone who wants to take advantage of you. It may hurt but you should not be in a relationship with someone like that. You should break up with him, take it from someone who has been in relationships like this in the past. A daddy should never do anything like this to you. If you need someone to talk to you can message me.

[Guest CharlieFPG]

Please note that these are clear signs of an abusive relationship. I quote a good article about abuse. I would like to ask you to talk with your friends and family (or at least one of them you can trust) and seek professional assistance, if possible, to help you overcome this situation. You don't need to do it alone, I'm sure you have caring and loving people around you to help.

 

 

Psychological abuse can look like:

1. Humiliating or embarrassing you.
2. Constant put-downs.
3. Hypercriticism.
4. Refusing to communicate.
5. Ignoring or excluding you.
6. Extramarital affairs.
7. Provocative behavior with opposite sex.
8. Use of sarcasm and unpleasant tone of voice.
9. Unreasonable jealousy.
10. Extreme moodiness.
11. Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you.
12. Saying “I love you but…”
13. Saying things like “If you don’t _____, I will_____.”
14. Domination and control.
15. Withdrawal of affection.
16. Guilt trips.
17. Making everything your fault.
18. Isolating you from friends and family.
19. Using money to control.
20. Constant calling or texting when you are not with him/her.
21. Threatening to commit suicide if you leave.

 

https://psychcentral.com/blog/21-warning-signs-of-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship/

[Guest Prat]

If you don't like the relationship you're in then end it.

Our opinions on whether he's a good or bad Daddy aren't important. What's important is how you feel and how he makes you feel.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

there are a lot of red flags here, and not to sound like a broken record, but if you don't like the way someone is making you feel, get out. 

if you have reason to question, or ask a group of strangers on the internet if your relationship is unhealthy, you probably already know the answer. 

[Guest Aetherr]

this might cone off as harsh but you already know how he makes you feel and you already know you don't like it so you have 2 options.. tell him to fix his shit or just leave.. as for why it really doesent matter why nobody deserves to be treated like trash by someone they trust and love

[Zenmackie]

Open and honest communication on both sides is the foundation of any loving relationship and it sounds as though your 'Daddy' is only interested in what he can get from you.  A Daddy/Dom's first and most important responsibility is for the happiness and well-being of his little/sub.  

 

I recommend reading 'A Submissive's Bill of Rights' at this link:  http://www.dadgproductions.com/subrights.htm  It's good information to have and may help you understand your situation better.