Looking for a Daddy

[Guest Claydon]

How did you meet/ find your daddy's ? 

Were you already together and introduced the DDlg thing?

Or did you find him in a odd way ?

Also, Anyone actually met anyone through this site, that has become their daddy?

I want to find a daddy but I am too shy and want an older man not boys my age?

I live in the UK and never get out much?

 

Tips? Help?

[QuietStorm]

Hello

 

I'm a daddy but I hope you don't mind me giving my point of view?

 

My experience was through fetlife and also on here... being online means you can find partners and I have been successful on both sites. You know ddlg is a common interest, but you also need to find additional interests to make a relationship work. So it's like reverse dating... you find a potential daddy (or little in my case) then see if you can find other common ground. Just keep looking on here and other places get chatting, don't be afraid to say no if that person doesn't feel right for you and you will find the perfect daddy for you I'm sure. 

[Guest Claydon]

Hello

 

I'm a daddy but I hope you don't mind me giving my point of view?

 

My experience was through fetlife and also on here... being online means you can find partners and I have been successful on both sites. You know ddlg is a common interest, but you also need to find additional interests to make a relationship work. So it's like reverse dating... you find a potential daddy (or little in my case) then see if you can find other common ground. Just keep looking on here and other places get chatting, don't be afraid to say no if that person doesn't feel right for you and you will find the perfect daddy for you I'm sure. 

 

okay thanks.

[Guest Fancysir]

I met my little on here. It's still just a few weeks in, so time will tell, but so far it has been the best start to a relationship I have ever had.  Quiet Storm makes a very good point.  Common interests and values are important.  Luckily my little and I have a lot in common; from big picture stuff like family values, importance of loyalty and devotion, spirituality to other things like playing board games, singing, working out, cooking healthy foods.  This is only the second relationship I went into knowing her ddlg status prior.  All the others started vanilla and progressed to some degree.  Eventually I found my self frustrated when those past relationships stopped short on the sexual front.  I have found this way (reverse dating as Storm put it) to be much easier for me.

 

Be patient. Don't settle.  Have hope that your right partner is out there.  After reflecting on my life I realized my entire life has been to prepare me to be a good daddy for her. Even one year ago I would not have been ready to treat her like she needs. It took me 41 years, but let me tell you....she was worth the wait. And I think your Forever Daddy will be worth the wait too.  

[chateautal]

Try making a post in the Personal's section on this website, for starters?

 

FetLife is also a good place to look - but if you are a woman, you should expect an extremely high noise/signal ratio if you post a classified in any groups there (you may get many unsavoury response from people who have no interest in the dynamic whatsoever). However, you may be able to browse profiles of people more local to you too, and possibly approach them with a polite message?

 

There are many types of Daddy Doms, including those who prefer their little to be younger than them. Just take care not to let yourself be pressured into a bad relationship (or into thinking it's "now or never") . Personally, I feel it's worth getting to know someone to see if one could be friends with them first - and then build the relationship from that. It's also worth having contact with other Littles as friends, who can share hunches, experience, and knowledge about red flags, etc.

[Zenmackie]

As with almost any other kind of search for the right relationship, the real secret is patience.  Read some of the Personals on this site from Daddies, talk to any of them who might be right for you and above all Take. Your. Time.  A true Daddy will take the time to get to know you, learn about your needs and wants and earn your trust.  The jerks and wannabes will immediately start ordering you around and making demands.

 

Talking to prospective Daddies will also help you to better understand what you really want (and don't want) from the relationship.  In time you may want to place your own Personal ad here on the site, and it's very important to be clear.  Good luck to you.