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I'm a little in secret, no one knows about it. I know if they discover about it i will have problems with them.
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It's not necessary for them to know, maybe with the exception of other kinky friends.

 

If you have any gear you could store it in a lock box or install a locking doorknob for your room.

 

Stuffed animals can be easily dismissed if you are a girl.

 

I live at home and hide it easily. You just have to be careful!

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Guest LittleSnowiii
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No. People where I live are extremly close minded. To not mention, me being little is also a coping mechanism because how my family acts.

I think is up to each little to be open about it or not ^^

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Yep.  Everyone knows.  Kind of funny actually.  Take a look at my gallery for pictures of home - so clearly anyone walking in the house knows something is up.  And, I am not shy about it.  I am not shouting it from the rooftops but if you ask me a question and the honest answer outs the family, then we are being outed.  If you can't accept and love all of us, then you have no place in our lives.  Of course, six foot tall, 255 pounds, Marine Force Recon, martial arts instructor with two black belts... who is going to make fun...twice? ;)

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A couple friends of mine know. One is a little himself and the other is what I call a closet little cause she is little but it's not her husband's thing so she keeps it to herself other then to me.

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Guest Nurse little
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A couple friend sent but I’m scared to come out to my family what would they think of it

My friends is a little to though we actually met going to this little conference thingy I. Add a excuse that I wasn’t at my friend Lily’s house but she’s is little to so we went

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My family and friends don't know. My partner does know a little bit, but she doesn't really completely understand it all that much. She finds my "young mind" endearing and does kinda embrace the fact that I like colouring, cartoons, stickers etc but I find it hard to try and explain it more because she doesn't really comprehend the idea, if that makes sense.
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My husband/Daddy and I are in the dynamic together. A few of my friends know and a little bit of my family. Otherwise it's something I keep pretty close to me. It isn't necessary for everyone to know.

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Guest Lilrije
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My family think I ''refuse to grow up' and hence I buy stuffies and own it like a boss baby .My colleagues call me baby girl baby but am sure one of them is a daddy he likes asking me who is a papa..I brush like crazy and run off.
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Guest LittleChandlerette
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It would be weird if my family knew about my kinks.
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Guest CaptainAmerica97
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I have one friend that knows I am into the BDSM/DDLG World but other than that no

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My daddy's friend knows that I call him daddy, but she doesn't know anything else about our dynamic
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2 of my bio sisters as they are also kinky. Nobody else in my family knows though I know they suspect.
Guest JasmineStarshine
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A lot of my friends are aware that I am a little, but since my circle mainly consists of other LGBTQ+, alternative, and kinky people, most of them usually say "Yup, called it!" when I come out to them!

 

My family doesn't know, although there was an instance where my (actual) mother found one of my pacis and I had to explain my way out of that situation ^^;

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my mom knows and she is fairly supportive about it for the most part since she knows it's due to the trauma i suffered growing up.

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My family and friends don't know. My partner likes my little side and finds it adorable when I act little sometimes. But I haven't really told him directly that "I am a little".
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My friends and husband do, but my family no.

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Well my husband/Daddy knows and our friends in the BDSM community knows. 

But most people always just compliment me on how young I look and how great it is that I'm not afraid to act silly and childlike. My home is filled with stuffies from my Daddy and noone has ever mentioned it. I think they see it as a romantic gesture. I have a job where people expect me to be an expert  on what's fun for kids. So I get away with being a middle in public without anyone thinking it's something kinky. It's just who I am.

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Somewhat yes. I keep my DDLG relationship between me and my partner. However, some online friends know about it.

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Nope. It's my secret. Everyone I know would non stop question and rant about it if they knew, I wish they could though but would just be problems if they did
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I think just my Daddy knows. I told my best friend that I am “kinky” and liked being choked and that I liked rough sex. Other than that, I don’t plan on telling her the extent of my kinky side. In my opinion, there’s no need for her to know about that side of me.
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When I'm comfortable enough around someone I act more naturally childlike. This includes family and friends. But, I've never used the word "little". So I wouldn't necessarily say it's a "secret", but only somebody familiar with cg/l would look at me and think "yes, that person is totally a little".

 

And there's still some things I do in private I've yet to become comfortable with doing in front of another person. It mostly involves playing out in nature (hopping around, talking to trees, birds, mushrooms, etc, watching fish in a stream, giggling and falling on my butt, etc). I got teased for this stuff even when I was a kid but I can hardly stop it when completely alone in the woods. So, maybe no one truly knows the full extent of my "little-ness" except for me.

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Yep. I've got 3 friends in my direct sphere who are aware I'm a submissive, and one who knows I'm a little.

 

Kinda came about because she was flabbergasted that there are people who call their partners "Daddy". I looked at her for a solid minute then just said mentally screw it... " I've got a Daddy." .... "no, really. I do." Which led to a really bizarre conversation and her text messaging him :p

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