Becoming Little

[kittenprincess]

I need help...

My daddy and I have been together for 1 year and a half and I've been calling him daddy for about half of that time, and we're super happy together   the only thing is, I've just discovered the whole properly 'little' section of dd/lg where daddy sets rules and is really in charge of his little and I would really like to have that with my daddy, I'm just way too scared to ask in case he doesn't like it the same way I do. Has anyone got any tips?

[Guest Miss Braid]

Bring it up slowly like one at a time and maybe send him a link to a thingie! If you don't ask you can never have the thing you want.

[yumibun]

I think since you've been with him that long, you shouldn't be afraid to ask him. :3

Maybe try not to throw DDLG at him since it might freak him out at first ? Just talk him into consider being in the lifestyle with you.

You know, maybe tell him first of all 'things' you think he'll enjoy, then be honest and tell him why you like it or what about it you think would fit you and him. <3

Sorry if I'm not that helpful. LOL me tried.

[LB Chris]

When it comes to this, taking  Baby Steps, I feel is the best way so in time he sees this as a everyday thing he can join you in

[The Perennial Princess]

I think it's best to incorporate it slowly and with no 'exact plan' in mind. The dynamic should occur naturally between you two. As you notice little things that you deem 'daddy like' you should voice your approval to your daddy so he can slowly get an idea of what you are looking for. You should likewise encourage him to do the same. Each and every DDLG dynamic is different and eventually, you two will discover what is right for you. Hone the strengths in your relationship and define what behaviors please you and exemplify DDLG. I think it should be spontaneous. As you experience things together you will get a sense of the discipline you need and the discipline your daddy desires to give, and boundaries will fall into place quite naturally. You just need to give it time and take, as someone else suggested, baby steps in that direction. No relationship should be built on a premise, but, the premises of your relationship should occur naturally as a result of your respective personalities. For example, I started off calling my sweetheart 'Big bear' and then that lapsed into 'Papa bear.' One day, I noticed papa bear began to refer to himself as 'papa' to me, so I, picked up on the cue and gladly embraced calling him that.  And we have been together two years, mind you. As people, we are constantly evolving, and changing. The important thing is that we do so together.