Am i weird

[TGlittlePrincess]

so i was a daddy to my ex and we had a great relastionhip for a 1 year before it went bad, she even was the one who introduced me to being little, ands i loved it i still like being a daddy so we switched alot then she started to dress me like a princess, i actually enjoyed it and when i was little i was always a princess but at the end of the relastioship she got very hateful made me feel werid disgusting and not very princess like, she told me no one would ever want a ugly boy princess and since then we havnt talked that was about 3 motnhs ago and since then i cant go to little space without at somepoint rmemebering and crying, basically i asking is it okay for me to be 19 male princess when im little, would anyone ever want that 

[strawberryrosegirl]

You are not weird. No offense, but your ex was a total asshole for saying something so mean and uncalled for. She doesn't deserve you at all, and I'm truly sorry that she said that to you.

 

As for weather or not a boy can be a princess, I direct your attention to this quote: "Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren’t pretty, or smart, or young. They’re still princesses."

 

It doesn't matter what your gender is or what you look like or where you come from. If you want to be a princess, then you ARE a princess. Don't ever let anyone make you feel unworthy or unlovable just because they don't like themselves enough to remember to be kind. No matter what went on before she said that, that is clearly something you are very vulnerable about and it was a very low and dirty insult to use.

 

Even though I have a preference for girls, I hope you know that someday you will find someone who loves and deserves you and treats you like the perfect little princess that you are. I hope you never ever ever doubt yourself again because as long as you believe that you are a princess, you remain one.

 

I just want to give you a big hug. I'm so sorry she said that. I hope her eyeliner is never even, her socks always fall down inside her shoes, her car always runs out of gas just before she gets to where she needs to go, and that she steps on Legos and Barbie heels on her way to the bathroom at night for the rest of her life.

 

And as for you? I hope you never forget how wonderful and royal you are.

[SamL]

 

The following is an excerpt from a book which happens to be being shared in the Creative Corner subforum.

 

 

 

 “Now sit down; I’m going to dictate a list.  Write each down on a separate line.”  Daniel began dictating almost immediately and I had to scramble to not miss anything.  “Blue, consciousness, 42, dolphin, primitive...”  He continued rattling of this list as fast as I could write until I had written on every line on both sides of the paper.  I couldn't even stop listening long enough to tell him that we had run out of lines and so I started a second column.  About the time I got to the bottom of the first side again he stopped.  “There you go,” said Daniel cheerfully.

“There I go, what? I asked, completely confused.

“Now you have all the answers,”  he quipped.

“But Daniel,” I protested, “this is gibberish!  What are the questions?”

“What questions;” he asked furrowing his brow and raising his eyebrow, “there are an infinite number of questions?”

“The questions to these answers you just gave me!”  I was really beginning to think I was in the twilight zone or something.

“Ah those,” he said,  “Why do you want those?”

“The answers are no good without the questions!”  Yup, definitely on a tour of the twilight zone and Daniel was the captain of this tour.

“Quite right,” he said, a satisfied look on his face, “forget the answers for a bit and seek the right questions first.”

 

 

 

Perhaps more important questions than "Am I weird?" might be:  How did I come to believe that me being me was somehow insufficient?  and What am I going to do about that? 

Edited December 24, 2018 by SamL

[Child Of Light]

We have no idea what was going in with your relationship with your Ex. However, I hear a lot of judgement from her.... and things that likely shouldn't of been said. It may take sometime, but you will find what you are looking for. You have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

[Lil Lula]

You say weird like its a bad thing lol I am SO weird and I love it because it makes me unique. It's who I am and I live my truth to be happy. You my dear, are a wonderful PERSON who likes to be a princess. Well I'm a Little who just figured she's a switch, who is also a pansexual polyamorist. Yikes! That's mad labels right? Yeah, and none of them really matter because I'm just being me and trying to be happy. If being a 19 year old boy princess is your truth, the only thing I have left to ask is, do you like tutus or long gowns because when I'm a princess, I love tutus and butterfly wings xoxox you have a beautiful soul and your ex may have been projecting her own feelings about herself onto you. Don't let that darkness dim your shine! 

[mouse5]

Hello. I’m sorry your ex hurt your feelings so badly. I suggest you don’t listen to your ex!

Please try to smile.