Sweet Dom

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

So I am trying to find my style (for the want of a better word) and feel that being a sweet dom is suited to my natural character /personality. I would appreciate any advice as to how I can achieve my goal. For example would sitting down with my little be a good foundation on which to build on? We have a good level of communication and are fairly new to the community but are both willing to help each other. I would like to hear from both littles and daddy's in order to gain as rounded understanding as possible. Thanking you in advance.

[Guest Aetherr]

experiment, try a week or 2 of strict and dominating and a few weeks of being fun and loving.. see what makes you feel good and what get you caught up in the moment. personally i was lucky in that i knew i was a control freak who loves rules and being the alpha and i sometimes enjoy being loving and supportive.. i dont like to restrict myself but also i dont act a certain way for the benefit of others i let people come to me based on how im acting and it seems to work!

 

good luck with it

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

Thanks for taking the time to respond, I appreciate it. Being strict isn't something that comes naturally to me (from what I'm seeing this should be something natural to me?) but what you have said gives me more to think about so thank you

[Guest Avi]

buddy im in the same boat 110% gonna go ahead and shoot you a friend request if you ever wanna talk or smth

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

That's great, thanks

[Dark1927]

I really don't understand experiments, it's within you and follow your gut feeling, follow what comes natural, it will take time, took me 10 years in BDSM, to find that I'm more of DD than just a Master, if you have her, she will bring it out in you, although she could be a submissive Babygirl, but she has the power to as allow you to dominate and be her caregiver. Don't be other than yourself, if you feel you have the sweet domination, then you have the sweet domination and run with it. It is awsome by the way.

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

I really don't understand experiments, it's within you and follow your gut feeling, follow what comes natural, it will take time, took me 10 years in BDSM, to find that I'm more of DD than just a Master, if you have her, she will bring it out in you, although she could be a submissive Babygirl, but she has the power to as allow you to dominate and be her caregiver. Don't be other than yourself, if you feel you have the sweet domination, then you have the sweet domination and run with it. It is awsome by the way.

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

Thank you for taking the time to reply I appreciate it, yes I feel like that would be in line with my personality /character (sweet dom). Seems like this is something that we have to approach as a couple rather than just me would that be fair to say?

[Dark1927]

Yes it is fair to say, you are a unit, although that there are Daddies without babies just because the perfect relationship is not there yet (me for example) but the feeling is the feeling, compromise is good but it's a thin line so be careful, I believe everyone has their babygirl out there, so yes, work on it, talk to each other, seek advice, nothing wrong with that, and enjoy every moment, best of luck.

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

Thank you very much for reply, its given me something to think about and try to put into action.

[Guest Aetherr]

I really don't understand experiments, it's within you and follow your gut feeling, follow what comes natural, it will take time, took me 10 years in BDSM, to find that I'm more of DD than just a Master, if you have her, she will bring it out in you, although she could be a submissive Babygirl, but she has the power to as allow you to dominate and be her caregiver. Don't be other than yourself, if you feel you have the sweet domination, then you have the sweet domination and run with it. It is awsome by the way.

 

just because you dont understand them doesent mean they dont work especially for people exploring

 

 

im not implying that you disagree but im saying everyone is different and the answer doesent always come easy or without trial and error

[chateautal]

It’s often advised on this forum that there’s no “true” way to be little- and the same holds true with being a Daddy Dom. If you are anything other than yourself- it will put you under internal strain that could cause problems or even hidden resentment in the relationship. Rather it’s best to be organic about things.

 

That being said, you can still explore various dynamics with your partner- by trying new activities with an open mind. If something works for you, add it to your repertoire. If it doesn’t, don’t sweat it - and move on to something else next time.

[Guest Daddydomintraining]

Thanks for taking the time to read and respond I appreciate your help , we are taking things slow and being patient with each other as this is a first for us both.