Being a brat / punishments

[Hearteyes]

I know it’s like totally my fault here but I always act like a brat and get myself in trouble - which is all well and good - but often my daddy doesn’t follow through with my punishments. He just forgets sometimes.

When I talk to him about it he says he likes me being a little bratty and doesn’t want me to stop. But it feels difficult for me because the whole point of being a brat is the punishment that snaps me back into shape.

So I guess just looking for some advice on either how to possibly respectfully remind him about the punishment needed without seeming like I want it so much it won’t be a real punishment or to stop being a brat but still find a way to give daddy that feeling he likes of putting me in my place if that makes sense ??

[Guest FirmHand]

That's a tough situation. I think you are already on the right track by talking to your daddy about it. Healthy conversation is the best way to solve issues. Perhaps you should respectfully remind him that the punishments for you are as important as you being bratty is for him. Good luck!

[Guest BrookieBoo]

You should always be able to tell your daddy what you need in the relationship and if he doesn't at tleast try to fix it, then maybe he isn't the right daddy for you because the whole point of ddlg relationships is that both sides are happy and satisfied. You call him "daddy" for a reason. He's suppose to be taking care of you. So make sure you tell him what you need in order for him to do that.