New to being Little~

[FreyaFiery]

So I am still fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle in general. I first thought I would fit the submissive role when I first engaged in the community back in March. After a few months I found that purely a submissive role really wasn’t something for me. After looking a little bit into it I found the Little role. I found that I had similar traits that a Little has and I like a lot of Little things. However, I always felt that DDLG wasn’t for me as I felt it would be weird. I also had originally thought diapers would be a hard limit for me as they weren’t something I was ever into. After looking more at the Little role I found it really did fit me, however I felt really weird about it. Prior to coming into the BDSM world I felt I would be submissive, so to find out I wasn’t really submissive kind of messed with me.

 

Where I am getting at with telling you all this is that I kinda need some help. I’m trying to fully embrace that I am Little, but there is a lot I still don’t know about. For those of you who do have submissive sides as well as a Little side, how do you find balance?

[Sapphir3high3r]

We can be new together

[FreyaFiery]

We can be new together

yay

[MasterPhotog]

FreyaFiery, considering that you're still fairly new in BDSM in general, it would be best if you keep an open mind, go with the flow, so to speak, give it some time and let your kinky or little self evolve naturally. Don't be surprised if you notice that you're a bit of both at the same or different times.
Regardless of what your find yourself as, enjoy your exciting journey, cherish and be proud of your new self. Feel free to let me know if I can be further help! 
 

[FreyaFiery]

FreyaFiery, considering that you're still fairly new in BDSM in general, it would be best if you keep an open mind, go with the flow, so to speak, give it some time and let your kinky or little self evolve naturally. Don't be surprised if you notice that you're a bit of both at the same or different times.

Regardless of what your find yourself as, enjoy your exciting journey, cherish and be proud of your new self. Feel free to let me know if I can be further help! 

 

Thank you so much I guess my issue is can you be Little and submissive at the same time? My previous partner wanted a submissive and wasn’t expecting a little. So I was trying more to be a submissive versus a little. So I feel kinda bad about my little side because I feel I’m not enough.