Issues with ddlg?

[AngelLove]

Basically the past few months I haven’t been little at all, before I met my current man I was talking to an old friend and he asked me about it, being honest I didn’t hesitate to say I’ve been drifting away from the whole dynamic and everything to do with it feels forced. I haven’t stopped thinking about that, I’ve been a little for a few years, I’ve always loved everything about it and now every aspect of it just seems meh, it doesn’t interest me anymore. I wish I could say it was just stress but this has been going on for a while and my stress isn’t always that high. I call my man daddy but I’m not little and we don’t reqlly do much actual ddlg stuff, I just feel like I can’t anymore. I can’t get into that headspace anymore but I reallllyyyy want to.

 

I love this community and I’ve always loved the lifestyle but it doesn’t feel natural anymore, I’m wondering, should I take a break? Or try and make myself be little and try to get into that headspace again? I just don’t know what to do right now

[Guest AngelicBunBun]

I know how you feel, I can't get in the little headspace and I haven't felt little in almost a year and a half, i'm sad about it bc it was so comforting being little and I love being little but like people threw me off with ddlg and being little so now I feel kinda empty without it, I would suggest maybe taking a break, it'll come back to you when you need it I guess, best of luck!

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

My babygirl has some "little" characteristics that are a part of her personality but she nor I are into any kind-of age play. She may sometimes tell me that she is feelimg "little" but that really means she's needing extra attention. Thing with DD/lg is that there isn't just "one way" to do it. Every relationship and dynamic is different and it's always subject to change, growth in someways and growth out of some others. You should never feel guilty over how you feel, or because you don't fit some cookie cutter mold. Do what makes you happy.

[Guest Aetherr]

it sounds like you might want to think about taking a break, there is no point forcing it if its not working nobody can blame you  if you still enjoy the community why not stay?

[MasterPhotog]

If being little doesn't feel natural to you, you may want to consider taking a break and  trying being what feels natural to you. Follow what feels natural and inspiring, big or little, either way is right for you. Good luck!

[SamL]

I’m wondering, should I take a break?

 

Let's see...

 

 

 

Basically the past few months I haven’t been little at all

 

Sounds like you already have.

 

 

 

 

I just don’t know what to do right now.

 

Perhaps you might consider accepting where you are at right now and stop feeling guilty.

 

 

Edited December 13, 2018 by SamL

[XmochiX]

I am bipolar with borderline personality disorder and depression. Because of my mental illnesses, I have a very hard time getting into little space. Sometimes, it has even backfired and I found myself in what I call a dark little space where I just wanted to cry and throw tantrums.

[Amelia2610]

I am bipolar with borderline personality disorder and depression. Because of my mental illnesses, I have a very hard time getting into little space. Sometimes, it has even backfired and I found myself in what I call a dark little space where I just wanted to cry and throw tantrums.

I can relate to it, especially since physical health affects my control, and my CG dreads dealing with me when I’m upset..