Daddy seeking some advice

[Boltsfan91]

Blank Edited December 16, 2018 by Boltsfan91

[Tinka]

read again your message. Do it until you understand how wrong this is for all of you.

Do you remember your last post? At what state were you and you scared us?

Do you see how soul crushing it was for you? This whole situation?

Pushing the expiration date a day at a time, does no good to either of you. And to the potential future little you would have a bond with.

Its not fair for anyone.

 

i do not have an advice. My opinion, based on this and the previous post, is that this is very wrong, to the point that i cant even start picking things apart and explain them. I wish the best of luck. Just enter at your own risk, Boltsfan.

And if you do, just make sure your new little will be aware of ALL the situation.

Edited December 12, 2018 by Tinka

[Shadow]

I think that you let her make her own choice (in the sense of letting her move back) but remind her and make it clear to her that she can always come to you for anything, even just to talk so if she ever wants to express her little side that you would love to be there for it.

 

As for you, one day your babygirl will come. There's a lost princess looking for a some day you guys will find each other. I applaud in advance for your

[Shadow]

Dominant ways**

Sorry I pushed send too early lol

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

OMG, this is seriously messed up. 

 

Best thing for everyone is for you to delete all of the ways to contact this girl. She is from Utah, they are a messed up crazy bunch anyways. Secondly you talk about her like she has multiple personality disorder. Lastly on the subject of her, she was married and therefore was cheating. That is a terrible choice in a partner since they will do it again. 

 

 

For you... I would get off all social media, I would turn off your phone, not get on the internet, and go to a therapist for quite a while until you can be stable. Finding a little girl as a coping mechanism to deal with your shit will only end up as a disaster on all fronts. 

[APTX]

I think the problem here is that he is/was willingly being a part of cheating on her husband too.

Not to mention he seems to be looking for another little too.

 

That happens to be one of the very common things that happens here when people post about their break-ups and at the same time already are looking for someone new.

Never understood it yet came across it multiple times on this forum, but I'm outta this thread as I won't even bother giving advice to those type of people and give them reasons to feel good about what they are doing when they are not.

[TheTexanDaddy]

Everyone's got to face down the demons.

Maybe today, you could put the past away.

I wish you would step back from

That ledge my friend

You could cut ties with all the lies

That you've been living in

And if you do not want to see me again

I would understand

 

I know it's cliché but it kinda fits the situation. You put yourself in a bad situation, and now you have a mess to clean up. Cut ties, and work on yourself. Be healed before you bring another little into your life. Good luck!

[Tinka]

OMG, this is seriously messed up. 

 

Best thing for everyone is for you to delete all of the ways to contact this girl. She is from Utah, they are a messed up crazy bunch anyways. Secondly you talk about her like she has multiple personality disorder. Lastly on the subject of her, she was married and therefore was cheating. That is a terrible choice in a partner since they will do it again. 

 

 

For you... I would get off all social media, I would turn off your phone, not get on the internet, and go to a therapist for quite a while until you can be stable. Finding a little girl as a coping mechanism to deal with your shit will only end up as a disaster on all fronts. 

 

 

ehm....EXACTLY what this gentleman said. 

[DustBunny93]

I feel like you talking to her on the phone as a little (whether she was already feeling little when she called or you brought it out of her) sort of was selfish. I feel like you still want her and it was a way for you to get to talk to her as a little one last time.

I read your other post talking about it.

She broke up with you.

She wanted to end things with you for whatever reason. I don't remember right now if you said the reason you broke up or not.

You are wording it like you made the choice to break up with her, not vice versa and she left you.

 

I know it is hard but you have to let her go.

If she wants to be a little and have little friends she can do so. I'm sure she can join the forum if she didn't already and find other ways to talk to other littles.

By you trying to find her a friend it's like you want to keep hanging around.

 

I'm so sorry if this sounds insensitive or bitchy but you have to realize she left you.

She is even going back to her husband. She made her choice.

It's already hard enough to break up with someone to begin with but if you keep hanging around and trying to get her to talk to you it's just not right.

 

Do what others have said and get off the forum and social media for a while and move on.

[DustBunny93]

Also I want to add that you are looking for a new little and you want your new little girl to be friends with her.

That is forcing friendship on both people.

 

It's just another way to keep hanging around in her life.

 

I'm sorry but it's clear she doesn't want to be with you and wants to get away.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

What a pickle. This isn't a situation I would ever want to find myself in. Hopefully you learn from this experience.

 

It seems like you put a strong emphasis on the difference between big her and little her. If that is how you want to look at it, let's pretend this is a custody situation. You were the step parent, you are no longer in a relationship with the custodial parent.

 

What do you do next? Be the mature grown up or force the child to be your emotional crutch?