[littlescarlett]

Hello friends! So my daddy and I have been together for over a year and he’s known about my little side for most of that time. He was never super interested in having it be a huge part of our relationship dynamic but after telling him how much I need it he’s come a long way.

He’s a really super guy and he asks me what I want from ddlg but I don’t know HOW to tell him that I want a sippy cup and pacifiers. I’m big most of the time and when I actually am in Little Space it’s in small bursts before I fall out of it (still a bit self-conscious of my little-ness). I honestly believe that if I ask him he’d be okay with it but he would make it uncomfy by saying “uhhhhh.... I mean.... if that’s what you need to feel little, then sure.” But I want him to be excited about it! Help!

[Lola Step]

The way I broached the topic of packs with my daddy is first I started talking about all the semi self destructive things I do out of anxiety (nail biting, lip chewing, cheek chewing even) then he said that it was a bad habit and that I needed something else to do when I get stress that envolve chewing so it was actually him who bought up packs but I STRONGLY led him to it ;P Maybe you could try something similar with your daddy, I hear alot of people using packs for the same reasons, they also help regulate breathing as well so you could use that too Or if you're really daring you could just say that you love the feeling of a pack in your mouth because it reminds you ad something else.... that's guaranteed to get him just as excited about it as you are Sorry I'm rambling I'm exhausted

[Lola Step]

The way I broached the topic of packs with my daddy is first I started talking about all the semi self destructive things I do out of anxiety (nail biting, lip chewing, cheek chewing even) then he said that it was a bad habit and that I needed something else to do when I get stress that envolve chewing so it was actually him who bought up packs but I STRONGLY led him to it ;P Maybe you could try something similar with your daddy, I hear alot of people using packs for the same reasons, they also help regulate breathing as well so you could use that too Or if you're really daring you could just say that you love the feeling of a pack in your mouth because it reminds you ad something else.... that's guaranteed to get him just as excited about it as you are Sorry I'm rambling I'm exhausted