Possible To Train A Daddy?

[BabyGirlTree]

I am a submissive little with someone who is not in the lifestyle but has been open to learning and trying to be my Daddy Dom.

 

Do you have any experience or advice on how to teach/bring him into the role?

[Guest Aetherr]

yeah, just tell him what you need him to do and respect his limits and be patient

[BabyGirlTree]

He's completely vanilla and I'm the only person hes ever been with. What advice would you give to introduce him to not only the aspects of a D/s relationship, but a Ddlg one as well?

[Princess-Sha]

I would say maybe find information (forums on here, videos, blogs) that resonates with the way you practice ddlg, explain what it means to you and your preferences as well. Help him research and learn with resources you found. Answer his questions and Ease him into new things (so long as he is chill with it)

 

Hope this helped ☺️

[Guest Ukdaddy25]

That seems like a rather difficult situation to be honest, slow introduction into the lifestyle i suppose, if your his first may just take him sometime to find his kinks.

[Guest strawberry milk]

I was just honest with my last daddy. I told him what I liked, what I didn’t like, and what I wish we could do. And he told me vice versa. Have sessions of trying stuff out and talk about how it make you both feel. If someone doesn’t like something, don’t take it personally. Hope that helps!

[Guest]

Everyone has given really good advice. A lot of times a person will define a Caregiver/Daddy role as whatever they want to fit them or is popular for an explanation. However, Caregivers come in all types, just like littles. I would suggest you only give him a general definition that a Caregiver/daddy is a nurturer. From there have him develop what it means to  him based on anything that he naturally wants to do to take care of you as his girlfriend.  You can help him with the list by letting him know what you like, and what he already does that makes you feel he fits the role well. A combination of those and his own research he will want to learn more on his own naturally instead of trying to fit himself into an already built mold. I hope that makes sense. Well wishes! 

Edited December 3, 2018 by Baby_squee