Being a Needy or "Immature" Little

[Guest LittleDolly6]

Why is it always assumed that littles are needy and immature? I have never ever understood that. Yes, in my headspace, I tend to act at a much younger age, but that does not mean I am immature. When people talk to me when I'm not in little space, I hear so often that I'm much more mature than other littles. Yes, I'm a little, but I'm also a grown up when I have to be. Also, just because I'm a little, that doesn't mean I depend on somebody to take care of me. I am also an adult. I can take care of myself as well. I'm not an actual child. I have childlike tendencies, but I am still an adult. I have adult responsibilities, just like any other little should. It is fun to be babied, spoiled, and taken care of. But my whole life isn't like that. I still work. I still have to be a grown up. Being a little is not an excuse to not be an adult. I hear so often how "needy" littles are. It's nice having love and attention, I agree. It's fun when Daddy makes my choices for me, but I am still capable to take care of my own. Sometimes there are choices I have to make for myself. I can't say, "Daddy I'm too little to adult today!" You could say that in a joking/cute way, but not seriously. Again, being little is not an excuse to not be an adult. 

 

Just my two cents! c: 

[Guest strawberry milk]

I agree wholeheartedly with you! I think there's an exponential difference between choosing to be immature and genuinely being immature. The stories I've heard of shameless, immature, and subsequently abusive, unstable, and emotionally manipulative littles are absolutely awful. And the fact that a lot of CGs just see that as "littles being littles" is appalling to me. How I see it, there's a time and place for everything. There's a time when you have to be big and there's a time when you can be little.

Regression as a coping mechanism should not be an excuse to run away from adult responsibilities and personal accountability.

 

Just my two cents! Would love to hear some other views!

[Tinka]

Then how about this rule doesn`t apply to you specifically?

the fact that you are like that, doesn`t mean that the others follow your path.

 

Sit a while with us, you will see for yourself why they say it. 

As a little, i do believe what they say. and they speak for the vast majority. 

you will read stories of girls who really cant even breathe without a 24/7 man slave helping them to do so. 

Stay a year with us, you will see plenty of examples.

 

if you are not like that, then honestly good for you and good for your future daddy.

[Guest strawberry milk]

Then how about this rule doesn`t apply to you specifically?

the fact that you are like that, doesn`t mean that the others follow your path.

 

Sit a while with us, you will see for yourself why they say it. 

As a little, i do believe what they say. and they speak for the vast majority. 

you will read stories of girls who really cant even breathe without a 24/7 man slave helping them to do so. 

Stay a year with us, you will see plenty of examples.

 

if you are not like that, then honestly good for you and good for your future daddy.

Oh, I'm not talking about every little, of course! I know a few littles that are just normal people, you know. I'm just criticizing the ones that are. There are tons of people who cope unhealthily and are immature without being a part of the CG/l community, so it's not unique to littles! Sorry if I sounded like I was criticizing all littles. That wasn't my intention. ; ; 

[Tinka]

Oh, I'm not talking about every little, of course! I know a few littles that are just normal people, you know. I'm just criticizing the ones that are. There are tons of people who cope unhealthily and are immature without being a part of the CG/l community, so it's not unique to littles! Sorry if I sounded like I was criticizing all littles. That wasn't my intention. ; ; 

 

 

hey my strawberry , i didn`t write it for you! 

i said it for the girl who started this topic, and i meant a lot of girls (at least in this forum) act like that. 

i m sorry if you thought it was for you, i didnt even read yours, because when i pressed ''post'' it said you had just posted also!

[Guest strawberry milk]

hey my strawberry , i didn`t write it for you! 

i said it for the girl who started this topic, and i meant a lot of girls (at least in this forum) act like that. 

i m sorry if you thought it was for you, i didnt even read yours, because when i pressed ''post'' it said you had just posted also!

Oh okay!! Just making sure, haha. I don't want to make people feel targeted.

[Guest LittleDolly6]

I wasn't trying to offend anyone as well, I'm very sorry if it seemed like I was trying to target anyone. I surely didn't mean it that way. I just think it's aggravating when someone assumes that all littles are immature or all littles are "needy" and need somebody to do everything for them. I, personally, see myself as mature. I also agree with Strawberry that there is a time and place for everything. c:

[Tinka]

I wasn't trying to offend anyone as well, I'm very sorry if it seemed like I was trying to target anyone. I surely didn't mean it that way. I just think it's aggravating when someone assumes that all littles are immature or all littles are "needy" and need somebody to do everything for them. I, personally, see myself as mature. I also agree with Strawberry that there is a time and place for everything. c:

 

No no, rest assured you have both not offended anyone! its visible , no worries, my girls  

[Guest Avi]

im immature as fuck, literally ask anyone who knows me and im a dom. even though im a dom, im 19 and im still a dumbass and only just started experiencing real life. people are just assholes sometimes, myself included!

[LittleCelticLass]

I'm super needy and clingy, when I'm little. I'm even a little bit needy as big me. That said, I'm an adult. I hold a job, pay my bills, own a home and care for my elderly mom. In my opinion, if you can't be an adult, you have no business being a little. Now, this doesn't include those among us who are perfectly capable of being an adult but have the luxury of being in a relationship that affords them the ability to be a 24/7 little.