HELP!! Am I a Little?

[BunnyTears]

First of all sorry for this long post

 

I’ ve always been an insecure, sensitive and fearful girl, the world, adulthood, responsabilities seems so overwhelming and hurtful in some way to me that I like when someone takes care of me, treats me and assures me that everything is ok and will be ok, I prefer when people lead the way when I feel so done about trying to figure out how to do it myself.

 

Also I’ve always been a stuffies person, people around me scold me that they don’t have enough room to cuddle with me when I beg them to do so because I have a lot of stuffies, I think of my stuffies like pure, sensitive, funny, loving beings that love me no matter how much of a disaster I am, I like to talk to them about my problems or how I am feeling, I am trying to figure out how to include all my plushies in my bedroom because I have more plushies that I have but there is no more space in my bed for them and I hate them being so neglected and lonely :’( It makes me sad… (I will try to cut things down cuz this is getting a little bit long)

 

I am person that enjoys cartoons mostly the ones I watched in my childhood, I tend to like more the kids menu because I can’t seem to prefer adult plates over a kid plates, I am constantly wanting toys (thanks to that my 7 year old cousin likes me and talks to me a lot),I love candies (in a really obsessive way), love being so spoiled, also people say I get way to much hyped and scold me about that, and I hate feeling that I let people down, is just awful for me, etc.… now, being honest I have just being in Little Space once I think, because I found out about it just like 3 months ago, and I felt so amazing, light and care-free, I was so happy with my body in childlike clothes... but I was conscious that I had work to do (I tend to be really busy all the time) so it didn’t last long, now I want to know if In reality am I a little? Because thanks to my insecurities I think that maybe is not something I am, that is just I am just like that and In other places I’ve read that maybe I am not and that makes so sad because little space seems something that fits a lot with me and would help me to cope with stress and depression… so what do you say? Am I a little or not? Or could I be?

 

Again I am sorry for this long post I am desperate to know If I could be one of this beautiful creatures that are littles, I JUST WANT TO BE ONE!!! u.u

 

Thanks for reading this non sense <3

 

PS1: Also just to add I bought myself a pacifier and water teether a month ago, and now I just want them to be in my mouth all the time, they calm me because I tend to bite and suck things when I am anxious, mostly harmful things like pens or even my hair and the paci and the teether is a more fun and cute way to let out anxiety.

[Littlegirlandmiles]

I think from my experience as a (newer) little and learning about myself in the process, in my opinion, you sound like you are absolutely a little. And I honestly don’t think there are certain guidelines or rules that deem you a little or not. Every little is different. Like you said, you enjoy being In Little clothes and like a pacifier. For me, I wear a collar and have one stuffie whom I adore. I don’t wear little clothes or use any other little things(as of now) I guess. And I (and my sir) consider myself little. I love to watch Disney and children’s movies and just like you I am an extremely picky eater so I tend to stick to kids menu items such as chicken strips or Mac n cheese. We sound like we are pretty similar in some ways.

 

But in my opinion, yes you are a little. Embrace it. Love yourself. Be yourself. Your TRUE self. That’s what this community is all about. A safe place. Where we can actually connect and relate to people in a space where no one from the outside world can judge. Not everyone will understand. In fact, most people will not. But as long as you stay true to yourself you will thrive. And we are all here with you too!! (That’s why I’m here!! I feel I belong!)

[Guest KawaiiQueen]

It sounds like you are a little! But remember at the end of the day littleness is what YOU make it

[Guest BohoBaby84]

Hello BunnyTears!  I'm quite new to the lifestyle myself but one thing I've learned is that you are a little if you identify as one.  There is no checklist for being a little.  We're all different!  I consider myself a much older little, also called a middle, but I still need all the cuddles!  I would suggest that you keep going on this journey of discovering your little side.  And talk to people here, you can learn so much from others. 

 

I would like to add one thing - it's not unwise to examine why you need, or want, to be little.  Like anything else in life, using being little as an escape can do more harm than good.

Edited December 16, 2018 by BohoBaby84

[Fairplay]

Hi Bunny Tears

Reading your words I felt sad and happy at the same time. I'm sad that our world is such a mean and scary place; because you're right, people are judgemental and we're always being measured and compared. Plus there are storms and fires, and mass shootings and that unimaginably huge thing ...climate change. But I'm super-happy that you are finding a way to safety, security, and love. You're discovering that you can be little! It's such a blessing that you, even briefly, found little space. And you'll find a Daddy, too, who will protect you and keep you safe. 

So, yes, Bunny Tears, you are little. It sounds like you've always been little but you've had to keep your littleness inside and it is up to you how much you want to let her out. I hope you do and I hope it's wonderful!!

[sweetdaddy24]

Hi bunnytears if you ever want to talk just let me know ok i read your post and you seem like a little and a would love to have a chat if you want ? A just like to make other littles be happy and safe

[chateautal]

It sounds like you are a little - and that’s okay! Just remember, there’s many ways to be a little and so don’t let anyone tell you you’re not a real little because you like X or don’t like Y. It’s something you get to define for yourself and there’s nothing wrong with it.

[Guest MentorMike]

You are a little because you identify yourself as one. I personally don't think someone has to be in little space a lot or actual at all to be a little but that said I don't care about labels anyway. You gave enough examples why you are absolutely a little in so many aspects regardless of little space. Don't get stressed out about what random people think.  

[BunnyTears]

I think from my experience as a (newer) little and learning about myself in the process, in my opinion, you sound like you are absolutely a little. And I honestly don’t think there are certain guidelines or rules that deem you a little or not. Every little is different. Like you said, you enjoy being In Little clothes and like a pacifier. For me, I wear a collar and have one stuffie whom I adore. I don’t wear little clothes or use any other little things(as of now) I guess. And I (and my sir) consider myself little. I love to watch Disney and children’s movies and just like you I am an extremely picky eater so I tend to stick to kids menu items such as chicken strips or Mac n cheese. We sound like we are pretty similar in some ways.

 

But in my opinion, yes you are a little. Embrace it. Love yourself. Be yourself. Your TRUE self. That’s what this community is all about. A safe place. Where we can actually connect and relate to people in a space where no one from the outside world can judge. Not everyone will understand. In fact, most people will not. But as long as you stay true to yourself you will thrive. And we are all here with you too!! (That’s why I’m here!! I feel I belong!)

Thank you, hun really your reply made me feel better, I am still with baby steps in my little life, I am someone so doubtful so I need a lot of reassurance and so thank you for the sweet words <3 you really helped me out

[BunnyTears]

It sounds like you are a little! But remember at the end of the day littleness is what YOU make it

Thank you for saying it, I am trying to paint my little canvas the way I like it :3

[BunnyTears]

Hello BunnyTears!  I'm quite new to the lifestyle myself but one thing I've learned is that you are a little if you identify as one.  There is no checklist for being a little.  We're all different!  I consider myself a much older little, also called a middle, but I still need all the cuddles!  I would suggest that you keep going on this journey of discovering your little side.  And talk to people here, you can learn so much from others. 

 

I would like to add one thing - it's not unwise to examine why you need, or want, to be little.  Like anything else in life, using being little as an escape can do more harm than good.

See, I think that is one of my main problems, I am a person that take the other people word instead of my word, one day my dance teacher in a mean way he shouted at me asking me if I have own judgment, so I don't know how to feel about me and littlespace sometimes, I doubt myself and I tend to get really sad about it and I know I am 22 year old adult that should have my own judgment but I need help and I know littlespace is not an escape for me, I used self harm to escape from reality so I know the difference, I know just enjoy it and It gives me peace of mind but other things gives me peace and joy too like dancing, the only thing I am sure is I like a paci in my mouth, I love my stuffies, I am scared of getting older and adult responsabilities, I love making baby/child sounds, etc. but I am still discovering my little side but thank you bringing that up the examination of reasons to be little and sorry for the rant

[-SoftBunny-]

Hi Bunnytears!

 

I'm a little for now  2 years and I understand that you are questionning yourself and how it can be hard to tell if you are at the right place! C:

What I have to give you as a advice is to really educate yourself more about what is DDLG and Age regressor! they are 2 different things and they have different significations and headspace (even if they are smimilar :3 ). When you are on tumblr or Intsgram or any other plateform ta shows the community sometimes they are not really instructive... Try that!

 

also, it's ok to have difficult with own judgment and i'm sad but happy to know that you don't hurt yourself anymore! C:

I have that kind of problem too but you can learn to trust yourself: you have to try! ^^

Finally, I think you are a little but a little who need to learn about herself, what you like, what kind of community in this kink you fit the most and to love who you are!

 

If you wanna talk add me or inbox me! I would be vewyyyyy happy to talk with and anwser to your question!