Parenting and being a little

[LittleRae]

So my Daddy and I just had a baby, and ever since we had her, he doesn't seem interested in Little Space at all, and I am in serious denial. He says it's hard to do little space when the baby's awake, but then when she's asleep, he says he's too tired. So I am looking for other littles with kids, and wondering, HOW THE HECK DO YOU FIND TIME TO BE IN LITTLE SPACE?!

[Guest Aetherr]

speaking as a dad, parenting is hard and it wont get easier but the challenges will change, the older your child gets the easier it will be to be little with your child, playing with toys and drawing and watching cartoons but if you are dealing with a newborn your daddy is right its not a good time, a newborn needs to be watch nearly 24/7 and care takes alot out of you, i barely had time for myself for years while my daughter was growing from a baby to a toddler

 

it is possible to be little dont get me wrong but its secondary to your child from now on and that wont change.

Edited November 26, 2018 by Aetherr

[MadelynVictoria]

I'm a parent myself, and let me tell you, it's really difficult to balance little space and being a parent. Balancing anything while being a parent to an infant is difficult in general. A lot of things have to be placed on the backburner while you take care of your baby. Aetherr is correct when he says that it gets easier as your baby grows up. You'll just have to wait it out, and find time here and there to do it

[Quirkygrl16]

Im also a parent and finding time to be little is so so so hard..

[PrincessSnorlax]

I have children! Me and sir make time at least one evening a week for playtime so we can be sure it’s factored in somewhere with our busy schedules (we both work 40hr weeks and have 3 children) but we try to squeeze playtimes in where we can. My eldest is a girl and we do lots of colouring together and play games together etc and it’s really fun because I can be little and be a really good parent too as the kids think it’s great that their mummy plays with toys and video games and watches cartoons so much! When I have time on my own in the evenings (sir works night shifts I work day shifts) when the kids go bed I use that time for bubble baths, and really having princess time until I finally fall asleep!! It’s just about finding a routine that works for you and your family xxx

[bbDD]

In your case I would look at it as just one more to take care of. You still need your time as does daddy and the new member of the family. IT takes effort, keep trying.

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