DaddysSpoiledLittlePrinces Posted November 25, 2018 Report Posted November 25, 2018 So this is sort of embarrassing for me but I am basically a closet little. I’d like to be little out in public and my daddy doesn’t mind it but I have a crippling anxiety caused by a fear of being judged. Because of this I never want to leave the house because I feel I don’t get to be my true self when I’m out with daddy. Any advice on how to overcome this problem would be much appreciated. 1
MasterPhotog Posted November 25, 2018 Report Posted November 25, 2018 Little Princess,Considering your situation, you may want to venture out being little in public gradually, take baby-steps so to speak, knowing that your Daddy is there to protect and support you. In addition, discuss your anxiety situation with Daddy BEFORE going out and set a gesture or safe word which would let Daddy know that it's time for him to deal with the situation and for you to get back in safe environment.
bunny_boy Posted November 25, 2018 Report Posted November 25, 2018 I used to have really bad anxiety for many years and it took a great amount of effort for me to gain more confidence in myself. Long story short, here are some things I picked up that personally have helped me over time: Positive Affirmations. This one seems silly, but when a thought is constantly in your head, you start to believe it. Self-Love. Another cliche one, sorry. Basically, start trying to love yourself. Do some self-care and other things. It'll help bring up your confidence by giving yourself some time. Sorry if that doesn't make any sense as I am tired. Over time, I guess I created my own thoughts that help me come out of my shell. To sum it up, it's your life- no one else's. We are just people on this planet doing what we can while we're alive. Some of us will realize this and allow ourselves to be happy while others won't and will envy/ tear down those being their best selves. In reality, it is only your opinion that matters, as it is your life. What other people think isn't important because they can't decide what's going on in their lives, just as you can't pick and choose for someone else. Another thing that I recommend is maybe talking to your daddy about your fears. I do this with my mommy and it makes me feel more secure. Aghhh im so tired. I apologize. I wish you luck and hopefully you can embrace your little self in public!~ 1
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