I Don't Want Two Daddies Any More

[Harleykins]

I've made a terribile mistake in getting 2 daddies. One of which is my boyfriend who isn't up for the physical side of the DDLG relationship but that's absolutely fine by me; I don't want to make him do anything he's not comfortable with. The other daddy I have is a friend of mine who I exclusively get the physical side from.

 

I asked my second Daddy about how he feels about me going into my little space, because I only do that when I'm with my boyfriend/daddy. He kind of shrugged it off despite me explaining how odd it felt to be getting called princess while out of my little space. I don't want to be his little any more but I've been toying with the idea for a while and I don't want to make him feel like I'm messing him about. I can't talk to my boyfriend/daddy about this because he has no idea.

 

Safe to say, I'm in a bit of a pickle.

 

I'm seeking advice so anything you have to say is greatly appreciated.

 

I'm also new to this forum so any tips you have for me on that front are also appreciated.

[Guest LaidBackDaddy]

While it sounds hard, the easiest thing to do is be honest and get it over with. It will only get worse and hurt them and you worse if you wait any longer. i want preach about sneaking around behind someones back. You know by now it's a bad idea, I'm sure.

[MrBonesWildRide]

While it sounds hard, the easiest thing to do is be honest and get it over with. It will only get worse and hurt them and you worse if you wait any longer. i wont preach about sneaking around behind someones back. You know by now it's a bad idea, I'm sure.

 

Absolutely this. You want to be the most upfront about this to avoid the potential miscommunication that may come from having it pent up. Make sure every party is aware of your stance and try to gain feedback. It seems like you've attempted to do so already, but perhaps be more vocal and direct. "I'm beginning to realize that I do not want to have this physical relationship and I'm sorry that it has come to this. I feel a bit strange about everything and it doesn't have anything to do with you in particular" is a good base template to start with.

 

All in all, I hope this situation passes smoothly.

[Funfreeliving]

Well i agree with wat laidbackdaddy said. Its best to be honest and open about it. Get to a neutral ground and talk openly. Let him know why you came to that decision and what u actually expected.

Make sure he understands that u appreciated him as ur daddy but its time to move on. Daddy's will have to face this someday.

[Harleykins]

Thanks everyone and I've taken your advice into consideration.

 

I've told Daddy no. 2 that I don't want to be his little any more and he was very understanding. We're still friends but he still hints at being my Daddy again.

 

My boyfriend/daddy isn't aware but I'm not sure if I should tell him since it's all blown over now.

 

Thanks again for helping me.

[Guest Pacifier Princess]

I would tell him as relationships are built on Honesty and Trust. He might be a bit mad, but I think since you resolved it that he might not stay mad. Always be honest with your SO