Little babying other little

[Jamiee]

So my girlfriend is my little, and she can play the role of a mistress type character occasionally, if she’s with a girl. And last night, she took on the mistress role with another little, and babied her most of the night. I’m really new to all the Cg/L stuff, so how do I react to this? Is it acceptable and okay, just her helping out a friend, or should alarm bells be ringing?

[Guest Lithic]

So, I have several questions. First, was this scene acceptable under the restrictions embedded within the relationship framework you both agreed to? Second, did she ask you or communicate her intention to do this before hand (if not or of so, did you expect her to)? Third, was it sexual and is that part of what is acceptable within your relationship? Forth, would you be allowed to do so as well if you were so inclined? Fifth, what is it a out this event that is causing you to believe alarming bells are ringing?

 

If you think about the answers to these questions, what would you infer or what is devulged from the answers? I am sorry if I haven't given you outright advice, but there isn't enough information, and telling you to talk to her seems a little cliche and unhelpful.

 

Good luck!