Feeling Sad All The Time

[LittleMissieCND]

I'm very new to all of this.

I started talking to someone who seemed to be a good fit as my new Daddy.

He's good looking, funny, and very smart.

He is married and it tears me apart every second of the day because I don't want to be THAT woman!

I feel like my emotional pain is his fetish.

I don't think I am supposed to feel this bad.

 

I thought that I would be full of love and happiness with the right person.

[Tinka]

i m sorry is there a question or a request here from us, readers?

 

i m very strict when it comes to married people , so i will prevent myself from commenting further on that, i will just say that you should do what feels RIGHT inside of you.

If entering as a third person in a married couple fills you with remorse, then its your subconscious screaming at you that this is not a good situation for you, your soul, your heart etc. 

Do not fade away in situations like that. 

And if he feeds from emotional pain, he is the worst kind of vampire, and your little @$$ needs to leave him. 

[tristesse]

you don't want to be THAT woman, so don't be THAT woman. :/

[LittleMissieCND]

I'm sorry I should have said asked...

 

Is it normal to feel sad all the time?

 

I was really confused as to why I was feeling so bad when I shoild be feeling good about being with someone.

 

He said he was in some sort of sexless open marriage when we first started talking.

 

He told me he would not rush into anything sexual with me and he did.

Because this is my first experience I trusted him.

 

Then he announced to me that he is married and will not leave her and he is choosing to cheat on her and he hopes it's not a deal breaker.

 

He keeps saying that theese kinds of relationships are very painful and wiahes it didn't have to be.

 

I realise now that I have to break things off and I feel stupid that I fell for someone like that.

[Guest SenpaiPleaseNoticeMe]

You let yourself be vulnerable and that’s what we do when we want to genuinely fall in love. This will be a thing of the past and next time you’ll know how to guard your heart a little more. You are fantastic. You are beautiful. You are cute as fuck. You are stronger than you think. You have so much love to give so make sure you make the next guy work for the treasure in your chest.

[Little-one-xo]

I'm sorry I should have said asked...

 

Is it normal to feel sad all the time?

 

I was really confused as to why I was feeling so bad when I shoild be feeling good about being with someone.

 

He said he was in some sort of sexless open marriage when we first started talking.

 

He told me he would not rush into anything sexual with me and he did.

Because this is my first experience I trusted him.

 

Then he announced to me that he is married and will not leave her and he is choosing to cheat on her and he hopes it's not a deal breaker.

 

He keeps saying that theese kinds of relationships are very painful and wiahes it didn't have to be.

 

I realise now that I have to break things off and I feel stupid that I fell for someone like that.

I'm sorry to hear that, but the fact that he was married and lied to you about it, he cares more about himself and his own desires. Don't let this stop you from better experiences in the future though! We all make mistakes, live and learn, but the least we can do is try to fix it. He wasn't a good person, and I'm sorry he used you this way!

[Tinka]

I'm sorry to hear that, but the fact that he was married and lied to you about it, he cares more about himself and his own desires. Don't let this stop you from better experiences in the future though! We all make mistakes, live and learn, but the least we can do is try to fix it. He wasn't a good person, and I'm sorry he used you this way!

 girl ! wrong quoting message, you gave me a fright  

[Little-one-xo]

 girl ! wrong quoting message, you gave me a fright

What do you mean? Sorry, I'm blonde

[Guest Prat]

I'm sorry I should have said asked...

Is it normal to feel sad all the time?

I was really confused as to why I was feeling so bad when I shoild be feeling good about being with someone.

He said he was in some sort of sexless open marriage when we first started talking.

He told me he would not rush into anything sexual with me and he did.

Because this is my first experience I trusted him.

Then he announced to me that he is married and will not leave her and he is choosing to cheat on her and he hopes it's not a deal breaker.

He keeps saying that theese kinds of relationships are very painful and wiahes it didn't have to be.

I realise now that I have to break things off and I feel stupid that I fell for someone like that.

Yeah, best thing is to break it off..

I get open relationships where his wife wouldn't be able to fulfil his needs as a Daddy but if it's just a sucky marriage and he's getting a subby girl on the side without his wife's knowledge then that's a very big mess.

You don't want to be there, for your own mental health at least. (personally I'd tell his wife that he's a spineless cheater)