Feeling neglected by Daddy

[Ericaaa]

Hi, the past week my daddys been acting weird. He always has an excuse for why he wont call and never texts me more than one message a day if at all.... I feel like I did something wrong and I feel really sad and miss him and I dont know what to do.. Does anyone have any advice?

[Guest Lithic]

It sounds, to me, like your 'Daddy' is taking you for granted. Trust your gut, and don't let this continue if you don't feel that you are being treated in a way the makes you whole and complete. I understand that it feels like you aren't being fair, but you need to remember that you need to make sure you are in a relationship that is helping you grow, and is good for you. I hope this helped!

[Daxter]

The most important thing is talk.

You must communicate with him.

 

Try to understand what is happening and how you can help

It probably works, school or just being tired, in every way really it will sound like an excuse

So, the best advice I can give you it's to remain cold for a little while, try to understand the facts about what is happening on his side and then react towards it (with no emotions).

Don't put rage, anger, or even sadness on him, try to understand if it's worth doing that

 

 

If this continues, and you feel like it's not working well for you, then jump. Just let it die. He is taking you for granted if this continues, leading you in being in a worse state

[Ericaaa]

The most important thing is talk.

You must communicate with him.

 

Try to understand what is happening and how you can help

It probably works, school or just being tired, in every way really it will sound like an excuse

So, the best advice I can give you it's to remain cold for a little while, try to understand the facts about what is happening on his side and then react towards it (with no emotions).

Don't put rage, anger, or even sadness on him, try to understand if it's worth doing that

 

 

If this continues, and you feel like it's not working well for you, then jump. Just let it die. He is taking you for granted if this continues, leading you in being in a worse state

Thanks, the main problem is that I cant communicate with him.. He wont call me and if I try to bring up talking about something over text, He never answers unless I change the subject.. 

[Daxter]

Thanks, the main problem is that I cant communicate with him.. He wont call me and if I try to bring up talking about something over text, He never answers unless I change the subject.. 

It's okay!

Try to be more cold, bringing out the subject and saying you won't change it, pressuring him.

If this continues for a few more days just don't bother, really, I know it sucks and hurts but you must not continue in something where you are the only one doing the work 

[Guest CollateralBeauty]

Thanks, the main problem is that I cant communicate with him.. He wont call me and if I try to bring up talking about something over text, He never answers unless I change the subject.. 

 

His unwillingness to talk to you is a big red flag for me. Any relationship requires communication to be successful. I don't know too much about your relationship aside from what you've shared, but I would seriously consider moving on.

 

Maybe try telling him you want to have a talk and make it very clear to him what will happen if he doesn't. You've been kinda letting him push you around by not making him talk about the "hard" stuff, and I'm sure at this point he things you'll just change the subject again if he just doens't say anything. Don't let that continue.

[Guest DaddyDN]

Is he ldr?

 

He may be preparing to ghost. If contact tapers off gradually that would be my guess

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Hi, the past week my daddys been acting weird. He always has an excuse for why he wont call and never texts me more than one message a day if at all.... I feel like I did something wrong and I feel really sad and miss him and I dont know what to do.. Does anyone have any advice?

Advice: find a new guy who will treat you with respect.