I'm A Bit Concerned About Myself

[littlepup20]

Heya, guys!  

Lemme start by saying I'm still very new to this lovely community and how things work.

 

I have a boyfriend, who happily accepts being my Daddy. Though the only reason he knew for sure that I'm a Little is because he found this site. Our e-mails were synced on both our phones at the time and he just so happened to see a notification about the forum! I was scared because this has been bigger to me than just a kink or something I like.

 

I really am a Little.

 

He's been so sweet about it but I haven't really shown him a lot about the community yet. He treats me so well, babying me and calling me sweet names.

 

I know it's the worst time to actually be thinking about this but I've been thinking about having a Mommy as well. I'm just so so clingy. And I know that's normal in a Little and all but I just sometimes feel like I'm not getting enough attention, now that he has a job!

 

He's super understanding about things and I care for him so much. I honestly hope to marry him one day! Guys, please help me with advice! There's an even chance that he'll accept it or he'll get upset...But, of course, if he doesn't accept it, I'll be okay with it.

[Tinka]

he is super understanding you say, but you don`t say to us his opinion on the fact that you want a mommy.

[APTX]

It seems you've already somewhat mentally prepared yourself, you just need that little push to actually have that talk with.

Sit down with him and talk about this to him, same thing you've expressed here.

If he's okay with you getting a Mommy then hooray for you, if not you'd be content as he's still the amazing guy you love right?

I hope though, you'll be as understanding to his situation as him being a responsible adult who has other responsibilities in his life to take care of too.

 

I don't see any problem here unless you're not totally being honest to yourself.

[Koala]

I would agree with having that conversation, obviously, but, as a fellow clingy person, I've learned that no amount of affection will satisfy me unless I work on finding that love within myself. I know, it's cliché and may not apply to you at all but maybe think on whether you really do want a Mommy or you're trying to over-correct for a lack of stability. If you're seriously considering it then go for it and I wish you the best of luck! 

[Guest DaddyDN]

Personally I would consider that question to be a complete act of betrayal. For someone that I've done so much for to ask me for this? It's like I'm not enough.

 

Yeah I would break up with you immediately. But maybe he is different 

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

I'm confused about your question, because lack of question mark...

 

You want more attention? Do you know what kind of attention you want?

 

I ask because a blanket statement, "You aren't giving me enough attention," is likely to piss a man off.

 

I would start with a list of realistic, achievable tasks or activities that I want to implement. If he says he isn't up to the task, maybe then bring in the suggestion of a babysitter or mommy.

[littlepup20]

HELLO AGAIN

 

So, I decided not to ask him directly about the Mommy thing, if you happened to read my short post about how I wanted a Mommy. Mainly because I think it would indeed be a problem, it would just cause confusion. A few of you were kind enough to give me advice and I thank you for that. Though one comment in particular was a bit much.

 

Thanks for being polite for the most part.

[Guest Aetherr]

i just had a look at the thread in particular, and i do think you should have done a followup reply there but aside from that i am glad to hear you came to a resolution!

[littlepup20]

i just had a look at the thread in particular, and i do think you should have done a followup reply there but aside from that i am glad to hear you came to a resolution!

Thank you very much! I just had to have a good while to think about it and I just don't see it working out very well. I have a wonderful relationship and I don't wanna do anything to mess it up!

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

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