How to go on in did/lg after a breakup

[Laladolly]

Something is perplexing me right now. This lifestyle feels as natural to me as anything else, except now. Any break up is hard enough, but when you lose a daddy, you lose more than just a boyfriend or a lover. The worst part is he knew how vulnerable I was.

 

I mean, I've tried relationships that aren't ddlg and I just don't feel fulfilled. But trusting someone on this level is so intense and unique. After having that and giving that trust,to care, to punish, to make rules for me ....to share such intimacy.... I can't imagine how I'll be able to ever give it again.

[Guest Halien]

Hello! 

 

I'm really sorry to hear about your breakup. Like you said, they can already be really tough without the aspect of DDlg being involved, but it does make it even harder when you lose that important person and structure in your life. 

 

Honestly, I would take some time for yourself. Really sort out how you are feeling and think about what you would like to be different in your next relationship. It also might not be a bad idea to be an independent little for a while. Surround yourself with good people, other like-minded people, and really take the time to heal. You have a whole community of us right here and I know that we would all love to help   

 

Just stay positive and reach out for help when you need it. Feel free to message me if you want to talk, vent, or just need a distraction   

[Guest Aetherr]

i know the feeling my first little took me on a wild ride but i learned soo much after it ended. really the fact is you dont have much of a choice.. if i can say anything i would say go much slower next time