Being a little when you have children.

[LaLa 10]

Hi, I'm LaLa. I've been a middle for about 7mo now and I think my daddy will soon find someone new. See the thing is I have 2 gorgeous children a 4yro and a 1yro I'm the sole caregiver no father, just me and my parents. Daddy time has been extremely limited due to the fact that we are both truck drivers. We work for the same company so we get to see one another sometimes and when we do its exactly where I need to be and all is right in the world. But see daddy wants a family and he has made it very clear that he wants to start a family with his baby girl... Not build on to one. So my question is are there any daddy's that don't mind their littles having children or are there any littles that have children that make it work? I just found the ddlg community and I've never felt so fulfilled in a relationship ever and it kills me to know my daddy will leave me so I'm scared to find another daddy and be abandoned againg... How do you live the ddlg lifestyle as a parent?

[Guest buddhagirl]

If you search you'll find another thread on this. I have two kids and Daddy has two kids. We make as much time for Daddy/princess times, but it is a challenge, just like any relationship with children. Children come first, and we take advantage of any windows of time that we can. Let me know if you have any specific questions. 

[DaddyJsPrincess]

My Daddy has three children and we plan on having one ourselves one day. Daddy places being a father to his kiddos above everything else and I absolutely wouldn't want it any other way.

 

Any partner that's worth the honor will accept you AND your children. Caregivers are parental by nature and I would think that unless the person has committed themselves to being child-free (as some Daddies do) that you should not have any problems finding a Daddy in the future who appreciates your kids.

[Shy-giirl]

I've been curious about this because my daddy and I just recently found out we're having a little girl and I'm not sure if I'm ready to give up being a little, but a lot of these replies (and other posts like this) have been extremely helpful. :3

[Guest MissNMTX]

It seems his problem isn't with children or with the DD/lg lifestyle, but with you existing children.  Sadly, in any dynamic this is common.  The simple fact is, If he was a REAL MAN...yes I said that...and really loved you he'd welcome your children into his family and love them as if they were his own....They are only children and so young.  The fact that you fear he's going to leave you over this is selfish on his part....your kids were there before him!  I think a new Daddy for you and your kiddos is in the cards.

 

As I'm writing this I realize it might sound harsh.  I truly don't mean it too, but why get in a relationship with someone who already has children if you want to start from scratch?

[princesschibi]

Daddy and I have a child. I find we make time for us when he has a day off(and a grand parent will watch our child) or even after we've laid down our son. Even little (hehe) things we can do like cuddling on the couch or him giving me nose kisses are Daddy and me things but can happen in front of a child and he just sees to loving parents. Also I 100% agree with MissNMTX! Even if you have really strong feelings for him it might be better to break it off and find someone new.

[stargirl]

I think that he was more into the idea of having a baby girl than having you be his baby girl. Don't sweat it, when you find someone worthwhile you'll both find a way to make it work because of your genuine interest in each other.

[IchigoHime]

I have a child as well, and balancing my child and my little self is difficult some days, easy other days. She's at the age I am in little space so we do a lot of activities together. I have some days when my little self just demands attention and those are the days I struggle with cause I have trouble taking care of myself, let alone a child.

 

But it works out, and we're both happy and healthy.

[Daddys_Princexx]

Hey guys. So my husband and I are starting the DDLG lifestyle and tying to incorporate it into our daily lives. We have tried to incorporate it as a full time aspect (PG in front of our children) and well its becoming hard to manage as our children are always there. When in our room they are always bothering us, even with the door closed for a few moments. We liked the lifestyle, but its hard with the children constantly around. Do you guys have any tips or ideas how to handle this? How to incorporate the Husband/Wife into the DDLG lifestyle?