How to act, being a depressive Daddy?

[Alexdander]

 

Edited January 10, 2019 by Alexdander

[Guest Good-Karma95]

You shouldn't put the responsibility of your mental health into the hands of your partner... seek professional help if you have depression.

Talking about problems are fine but neither daddies, mommies nor little can be or should be responsible for your mental health.

[Guest Aetherr]

my little is currently dealing with something similar and i can tell you that its horrible to feel like you give and give and give and see nothing but a person who has bad days and is stressed constantly, i will tell you what i told her.... get help its not healthy or even remotely fair or okay for this to continue any longer than it absolutely needs to

[GlitterMonster]

I think it's important to remember that it is a relationship, and regardless of roles you need to lean on each other. If your partner is unhappy, they should be voicing that.

 

If the problem is serious and causing you stress, it may be wise to seek professional help.

 

Hiding your feelings could cost you your relationship. You both need to share what's going on.

 

And if you feel you aren't helping, change it. Maybe ask them things they like or help them get into their little space to help.

[Alexdander]

You shouldn't put the responsibility of your mental health into the hands of your partner... seek professional help if you have depression.

Talking about problems are fine but neither daddies, mommies nor little can be or should be responsible for your mental health.

Edited January 10, 2019 by Alexdander

[Alexdander]

 

 

my little is currently dealing with something similar and i can tell you that its horrible to feel like you give and give and give and see nothing but a person who has bad days and is stressed constantly, i will tell you what i told her.... get help its not healthy or even remotely fair or okay for this to continue any longer than it absolutely needs to

Edited January 10, 2019 by Alexdander

[Alexdander]

I think it's important to remember that it is a relationship, and regardless of roles you need to lean on each other. If your partner is unhappy, they should be voicing that.

 

If the problem is serious and causing you stress, it may be wise to seek professional help.

 

Hiding your feelings could cost you your relationship. You both need to share what's going on.

 

And if you feel you aren't helping, change it. Maybe ask them things they like or help them get into their little space to help.

Edited January 10, 2019 by Alexdander

[GlitterMonster]

Im going to a psychologist. Okey, thank you, I wont hide my feelings. But he wouldnt let me take care of him if he knows Im not in a good mood

I think this is something you both need to discuss. You have to figure out what he defines as good, and maybe if it's the case explain him leaning on you helps. You two know each other best, and have to do what is healthy for you both

[Guest Aetherr]

I know it is not healthy nor fair, but what should I do? I cant decide not to have bad days

 

 

seek professional help like I said.

[Arenvos]

Seek help, I suffer a lot from depression, and this week it has been an absolute meany, I am constantly tearing myself down, to the point of curling up in a little ball, trying not to cry, cos I got no one to encourage me to cry, so I have this, gotta be big mentality and bottling it up, I'm glad that your little is taking care of you in this state you are in, but really, seek out professional help. I can't, but it you can, I strongly urge you to do so

[Lion4Kitten]

I’m with Glitter monster. A Daddy has a right to feel low. You can’t be on your A game all the time. Depression is a real bitch. I hope you’re getting help.