Submissive caregivers?

[lacroix]

I know DDLG is daddy dom/little girl. I have been a little for 4 years. I am a total sub but I feel as though I may be a mommy. Mommy sub a little boy. I think I would enjoy a relationship like that, and I have met dom littles before (rare but they exist). Can anyone explain to me what being a sub mommy is like? How to take care of your little and what being in a relationship like that is like? Thank you.

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

This is something I have thought about. I have seen submissive caregivers, or rather those who want to be submissive caregivers. Mommies who are subs, and want or would like dominant littles. I am a little and switch. While a dominant mommy appeals to me, I think I would try or talk to a sub mommy. Due to my switch tenedicies. I'm not sure what being a sub mommy would entail exactly, but I'm always open to chatting. I know there is MDLB(Mommy Domme/Little Boy), perhaps there could be SBDL(Sub Mommy/Dominant Little) or something along those lines.

[LittleBunnyCici]

Hi, (mostly) sub Mommy here!

 

I definitely want to be taken and controlled by my my Daddy when I have one.

 

That said, I'm technically a switch. My fiancee is my little, and as her Mommy I am 100% in charge.

 

Morever, I've found myself drawn more and more to the idea of being an aggressive boy's Mommy, and having the relationship quickly flip upside down and ending up as his sub.

 

I think the draw for me is that it connects and twists my maternal instincts and my desire as a Mommy to make my little feel good. I don't feel this way for the little I have, so I suppose it isn't a universal thing for me. Then again, I've always felt much more submissive with men and dominant towards other women. So not too out of character for me, I suppose.

Edited November 3, 2018 by budding_clover

[bunny_boy]

Hello there!
 

I'm in a switch relationship where I'm either my girlfriend's caregiver or little. However, I'm submissive and always have been whereas she has always been dominant, regardless of either of us is in little space.

 

Even when I'm her caregiver, I am still submissive and vice versa.

[TheBigLittle]

I’m typically a daddy dom, but I like to switch often, not that I really control when I feel like it. As i am a triple switch (dom and sub, bi, and slightly gender fluid) it often makes it a little more difficult for me persobally. (I am physically a man for clarification)

But for me when I’m little I am a different person really, I don’t like to be called Daddy anymore when I’m little, my preferred nickname is either kitten or peaches. I’ve seen switched that are still called their caregiver name when they’re little, (personally hate it), and Ive seen Little’s have other names.

Like with everything in the ddlg community, and all relationship communities there is no right or wrong way, it’s just the act of cutting and pasting what you like and what you don’t and making a space that is fun for you that you enjoy.

As long as you have safe words, I recommend one for skip and one for stop, and know each other’s hard and soft limits you can’t really go wrong.