Depressed Daddy :(

[imdaddyslittledolly]

Daddy’s depression is coming back. I want to help him out and be there for him of course but he feels really guilty about not being horny because of his depression. I love him so much and I don’t need sex or anything. I’ve told him over and over I’m ok and he doesn’t need to feel guilty but he won’t take it. How can I help him?

[DaddyDom3238]

Hi,

I am so sorry that your daddy is having a hard time right now and I think it is wonderful that you care so much for him that you are reaching out for help. It would be wonderful to have a little as caring as you so for other daddy's out there thank you. As far as helping him through his depression, all you can do is listen and love him. Show him that you are always there and allow him to get through it with you by his side. If he brings up feeling bad about being depressed just tell him I love you over and over again. Just your presence, your caring, and your love will get him through it.

Again I am so sorry but the two of you together will get through this.

[Guest Aetherr]

he will find some reason to believe he is not good enough, theres not much you can do aside from be there for him and let him know you are still there and you love him very much

 

when i have very tough days i feel just that little bit better knowing my little is there for me and knowing she would do anything to make me happy

[Guest Arc]

My ex had severe depression. He always told me the best thing was just to be there for him and not to act differently because of it. He said when I went out of my way to do more for him he didn't like it because he didn't like his depression effecting my behaviour too. He just wanted things to be as normal and as stress free as possible. So I just did lil things for him to try remind him I was there and he was loved and cared for. Things like drawing him a picture, baking his favourite treat, getting a bottle of his favourite beer and cuddling up beside him at night to talk/watch a movie/whatever. I'd also do my best to take care of myself and do everything I needed so he didn't have to worry about how I was doing, and when I'd tell him all the things I had done it made him happier and proud to know that I was doing well. So just be there for your daddy and show him you love him.

 

As for him not believing you don't need sex... that's just depression lol. Depression will always convince you you are failing at something and it won't listen to anything or anyone. All you can do is remind him that there's so much more you love about him than sex and that his wellbeing is far more important, and give him time.